Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 3
Verse 2 of 3

What the World Calls Ruin Can Be the Best Thing

ਇਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਮੁੰਡੀਅਨ ਮੇਰਾ ਘਰੁ ਧੁੰਧਰਾਵਾ ॥
inH mundee-an mayraa ghar DhunDhraavaa.
These shaven-headed saints have ruined my house.
ਬਿਟਵਹਿ ਰਾਮ ਰਮਊਆ ਲਾਵਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
bitvahi raam ram-oo-aa laavaa. ||1|| rahaa-o.
They have caused my son to start chanting the Lord's Name. ||1||Pause||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

These shaven-headed holy folk have turned my household upside down!

They have got my son singing the Name of the One.

Sometimes what worldly people call 'ruining your life' — choosing goodness over status — is actually the best thing.
The deeper layer

This is the pause line, the Rahao, the center of the shabad. It is a joke with a wise point inside it.

Kabir speaks in the voice of someone complaining. "These shaven-headed saints have ruined my house!" The saints shaved their heads as a sign of their simple, holy life. And what was the terrible "ruin"? Bitvahi raam ram-oo-aa laavaa — they got my son chanting the Lord's Name!

Of course, this is the best thing that could happen. The young man has turned from chasing money and status to a life of love and devotion.

Kabir is gently teasing the way of seeing that cares only about wealth and status. To those eyes, becoming humble looks like a disaster. Imagine a friend saying, "You quit the popular crowd to help at the food bank? You ruined everything!" But it was really a kind of freedom.

Sometimes what the world calls ruining your life, choosing goodness over status, is really the truest success.

A Question to Sit With

Why might some people see choosing kindness over success as a 'mistake,' when it's really wonderful?

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