Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 316
Verse 4 of 4

You Get to Be the Child, Held by a Loving Parent

ਜਿਉ ਭਾਵੈ ਤਿਉ ਰਾਖਿ ਲੈ ਹਮ ਸਰਣਿ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਆਏ ਰਾਮ ਰਾਜੇ ॥
ji-o bhaavai ti-o raakh lai ham saran parabh aa-ay raam raajay.
As it pleases You, You save me; I have come seeking Your Sanctuary, O God, O Lord King.
ਹਮ ਭੂਲਿ ਵਿਗਾੜਹ ਦਿਨਸੁ ਰਾਤਿ ਹਰਿ ਲਾਜ ਰਖਾਏ ॥
ham bhool vigaarhah dinas raat har laaj rakhaa-ay.
I am wandering around, ruining myself day and night; O Lord, please save my honor!
ਹਮ ਬਾਰਿਕ ਤੂੰ ਗੁਰੁ ਪਿਤਾ ਹੈ ਦੇ ਮਤਿ ਸਮਝਾਏ ॥
ham baarik tooN gur pitaa hai day mat samjhaa-ay.
I am just a child; You, O Guru, are my father. Please give me understanding and instruction.
ਜਨੁ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਦਾਸੁ ਹਰਿ ਕਾਂਢਿਆ ਹਰਿ ਪੈਜ ਰਖਾਏ ॥੪॥੧੦॥੧੭॥
jan naanak daas har kaaNdhi-aa har paij rakhaa-ay. ||4||10||17||
Servant Nanak is known as the Lord's slave; O Lord, please preserve his honor! ||4||10||17||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Keep me safe however You see fit. I have come to take shelter with You.

I go the wrong way and mess things up, day and night. Please keep me from shame.

I am only a child, and You, the Guru, are my father. Please teach me and help me understand.

Nanak is known as Yours. Please keep him from shame.

You get to be the child — held by a patient, loving parent who just wants to help you grow.
The deeper layer

You get to be the child, and the One is a patient, loving parent.

The shabad ends with a tender picture. Ham baarik toon gur pitaa hai — I am just a child, and You, the Guru, are my father. After all the talk of banks and trade, it comes home to the simplest bond there is. A child looks up at a loving parent. The child does not need to prove anything. They just ask to be taught, guided, and kept safe.

The singer is fully honest: ham bhool vigaarhah dinas raat — I go wrong and mess things up day and night. Yet this is said to a parent who will not shame a child for stumbling. The parent just picks them up. Think of learning to ride a bike with a grown-up running alongside. When you wobble and fall, they help you up and hold the seat again. Har laaj rakhaa-ay — the One keeps our honor safe. That is the bond on offer. You get to be the child, and the One gets to be the patient parent.

A Question to Sit With

What's the best thing about being able to go to a grown-up who loves you when you're stuck?

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