Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 319
Verse 3 of 4

When Worth Rests in Love, Unkind Words Lose Their Sting

ਜਿਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਾ ਅੰਤਰਿ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਿ ਹੈ ਤਿਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਹਰਿ ਰਖਣਹਾਰਾ ਰਾਮ ਰਾਜੇ ॥
jinHaa antar gurmukh pareet hai tinH har rakhanhaaraa raam raajay.
Those Gurmukhs, who are filled with His Love, have the Lord as their Saving Grace, O Lord King.
ਤਿਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਕੀ ਨਿੰਦਾ ਕੋਈ ਕਿਆ ਕਰੇ ਜਿਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਪਿਆਰਾ ॥
tinH kee nindaa ko-ee ki-aa karay jinH har naam pi-aaraa.
How can anyone slander them? The Lord's Name is dear to them.
ਜਿਨ ਹਰਿ ਸੇਤੀ ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨਿਆ ਸਭ ਦੁਸਟ ਝਖ ਮਾਰਾ ॥
jin har saytee man maani-aa sabh dusat jhakh maaraa.
Those whose minds are in harmony with the Lord - all their enemies attack them in vain.
ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮੁ ਧਿਆਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਰਖਣਹਾਰਾ ॥੩॥
jan naanak naam Dhi-aa-i-aa har rakhanhaaraa. ||3||
Servant Nanak meditates on the Naam, the Name of the Lord, the Lord Protector. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The Gurmukhs are full of love. The One keeps them safe.

Who can harm them with mean words? They love the Name.

Their minds are at one with the One. All who fight them fight in vain.

Servant Nanak thinks of the Name. The One keeps him safe.

When your worth rests in love rather than others' opinions, unkind words lose most of their sting.
The deeper layer

This one gives real comfort for when people say unkind things about you.

Nindaa means slander: saying mean, untrue things about someone. The verse asks: how can anyone's slander harm those who love the Name? Not because no one tries. It is because a heart resting in the One's love is not so easily wounded.

"Jin har saytee man maani-aa" — those whose minds are at one with the One. "Sabh dusat jhakh maaraa" — all who attack them try in vain. The arrows do not land, because there is no soft spot of pride for them to hit.

Think of a raincoat. The rain still falls, but it runs right off. When your worth rests in the One's love, and not in what others say, cruel words lose most of their sting. The One, the Protector, is the shelter.

This is not about being untouchable. It is about where your worth rests.

If someone is being unkind to you or hurting you, that is never something you have to accept. Telling a grown-up you trust is always the right thing to do.

A Question to Sit With

What helps mean words bother you less — where do you find your sense of worth?

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