Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 47
Verse 3 of 6

What Keeps You From Love Is Your Own Grasping

ਸਾਸੁ ਬੁਰੀ ਘਰਿ ਵਾਸੁ ਨ ਦੇਵੈ ਪਿਰ ਸਿਉ ਮਿਲਣ ਨ ਦੇਇ ਬੁਰੀ ॥
saas buree ghar vaas na dayvai pir si-o milan na day-ay buree.
Maya, my mother-in-law, is evil; she does not let me live in my own home. The vicious one does not let me meet with my Husband Lord.
ਸਖੀ ਸਾਜਨੀ ਕੇ ਹਉ ਚਰਨ ਸਰੇਵਉ ਹਰਿ ਗੁਰ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਤੇ ਨਦਰਿ ਧਰੀ ॥੨॥
sakhee saajnee kay ha-o charan sarayva-o har gur kirpaa tay nadar Dharee. ||2||
I serve at the feet of my companions and friends; the Lord has showered me with His Mercy, through Guru's Grace. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Maya is like a cruel mother-in-law who won't let me settle in my own home, or meet my Beloved.

So I serve at the feet of my true companions, and through grace the One has showered mercy on me.

What keeps you from what you love most is usually your own grasping — and good company helps loosen its grip.
The deeper layer

A striking domestic image inside the soul-bride frame: Maya is the "evil mother-in-law" who keeps the young bride from her husband. (In the joint households of Nanak's world, the mother-in-law held real power to come between a bride and her spouse.) So Maya — the pull of grasping — comes between the soul and the One. The escape is not solo heroics but Sangat: serving among true companions, where mercy arrives.

A Question to Sit With

What tends to come between you and the things that matter most to you?

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