Sikhism·Raag Bihaagraa·Shabad 10
Verse 3 of 4

The Deepest Happiness Can Never Be Lost

ਹਰਿ ਨਾਰਿ ਸੁਹਾਗਣੇ ਸਭਿ ਰੰਗ ਮਾਣੇ ॥
har naar suhaaganay sabh rang maanay.
The Lord's bride is a happy wife; she enjoys all pleasures.
ਰਾਂਡ ਨ ਬੈਸਈ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਪੁਰਖ ਚਿਰਾਣੇ ॥
raaNd na bais-ee parabh purakh chiraanay.
She does not sit around like a widow, because the Lord God lives forever.
ਨਹ ਦੂਖ ਪਾਵੈ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਧਿਆਵੈ ਧੰਨਿ ਤੇ ਬਡਭਾਗੀਆ ॥
nah dookh paavai parabh Dhi-aavai Dhan tay badbhaagee-aa.
She does not suffer pain - she meditates on God. She is blessed, and very fortunate.
ਸੁਖ ਸਹਜਿ ਸੋਵਹਿ ਕਿਲਬਿਖ ਖੋਵਹਿ ਨਾਮ ਰਸਿ ਰੰਗਿ ਜਾਗੀਆ ॥
sukh sahj soveh kilbikh khoveh naam ras rang jaagee-aa.
She sleeps in peaceful ease, her sins are erased, and she wakes to the joy and love of the Naam.
ਮਿਲਿ ਪ੍ਰੇਮ ਰਹਣਾ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਗਹਣਾ ਪ੍ਰਿਅ ਬਚਨ ਮੀਠੇ ਭਾਣੇ ॥
mil paraym rahnaa har naam gahnaa pari-a bachan meethay bhaanay.
She remains absorbed in her Beloved - the Lord's Name is her ornament. The Words of her Beloved are sweet and pleasing to her.
ਬਿਨਵੰਤਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਮਨ ਇਛ ਪਾਈ ਹਰਿ ਮਿਲੇ ਪੁਰਖ ਚਿਰਾਣੇ ॥੩॥
binvant naanak man ichh paa-ee har milay purakh chiraanay. ||3||
Prays Nanak, I have obtained my mind's desires; I have met my eternal Husband Lord. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

A heart joined to the One is like someone deeply, happily at home — full of quiet joy.

It never feels abandoned, because the One it loves is always there and never leaves.

It doesn't ache the way it used to; remembering, it feels lucky and blessed.

It rests easy, old troubles wiped clean, and wakes to gladness and love.

The Name is its finest ornament, and the words of the Beloved are sweet to it.

"My deepest wish came true — I found what lasts forever."

The deepest happiness is knowing the thing you love most can never be lost or leave you.
The deeper layer

This is the shabad's warm centerpiece: the suhaagan — the "happy wife" — the soul that has found what never leaves. The key contrast is with the widow: "she does not sit around like a widow, because the Lord God lives forever." The One you love most cannot be lost, so the deepest fear — abandonment — is answered at the root. The bride "sleeps in peaceful ease" (sukh sohilaa) and "wakes to the joy of the Naam" — rest and waking both saturated with gladness. Her ornament is the Name (again beauty relocated inward). The whole verse is a picture of security — the settled happiness of someone who knows the thing they love can't be taken away. For a child this is a profound comfort: the very best love is one that never abandons you.

A Question to Sit With

What makes you feel safe and settled, like everything is going to be okay?

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