Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 288
Verse 2 of 4

The Name Doesn't Pull You From Those You Love

ਇਸਤਰੀ ਪੁਰਖ ਕਾਮਿ ਵਿਆਪੇ ਜੀਉ ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮ ਕੀ ਬਿਧਿ ਨਹੀ ਜਾਣੀ ॥
istaree purakh kaam vi-aapay jee-o raam naam kee biDh nahee jaanee.
Men and women are obsessed with sex; they do not know the Way of the Lord's Name.
ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਸੁਤ ਭਾਈ ਖਰੇ ਪਿਆਰੇ ਜੀਉ ਡੂਬਿ ਮੁਏ ਬਿਨੁ ਪਾਣੀ ॥
maat pitaa sut bhaa-ee kharay pi-aaray jee-o doob mu-ay bin paanee.
Mother, father, children and siblings are very dear, but they drown, even without water.
ਡੂਬਿ ਮੁਏ ਬਿਨੁ ਪਾਣੀ ਗਤਿ ਨਹੀ ਜਾਣੀ ਹਉਮੈ ਧਾਤੁ ਸੰਸਾਰੇ ॥
doob mu-ay bin paanee gat nahee jaanee ha-umai Dhaat sansaaray.
They are drowned to death without water - they do not know the path of salvation, and they wander around the world in egotism.
ਜੋ ਆਇਆ ਸੋ ਸਭੁ ਕੋ ਜਾਸੀ ਉਬਰੇ ਗੁਰ ਵੀਚਾਰੇ ॥
jo aa-i-aa so sabh ko jaasee ubray gur veechaaray.
All those who come into the world shall depart. Only those who contemplate the Guru shall be saved.
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਹੋਵੈ ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਖਾਣੈ ਆਪਿ ਤਰੈ ਕੁਲ ਤਾਰੇ ॥
gurmukh hovai raam naam vakhaanai aap tarai kul taaray.
Those who become Gurmukh and chant the Lord's Name, save themselves and save their families as well.
ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਸੈ ਘਟ ਅੰਤਰਿ ਗੁਰਮਤਿ ਮਿਲੇ ਪਿਆਰੇ ॥੨॥
naanak naam vasai ghat antar gurmat milay pi-aaray. ||2||
O Nanak, the Naam, the Name of the Lord, abides deep within their hearts; through the Guru's Teachings, they meet their Beloved. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

People chase after what they crave and forget the way of the Name. Even the people we love most — parents, children, brothers and sisters — can feel like they are struggling for air when there is no real water of love to hold them.

Everyone who arrives here will one day move on; those who turn to the teaching find their footing.

But the one who lives toward the teaching and holds the Name lifts themselves — and their whole family with them.

The Name lives deep inside the heart, and through the teaching, you meet the One you love.

The Name doesn't pull you away from the people you love — it becomes the deeper water that holds all of you up.
The deeper layer

This one says that even our dearest bonds need the deeper water of the Name to hold us up.

It names a hard truth gently. Doob mu-ay bin paanee — they drowned, even without water. It means a life ruled by grasping can go under, even when there is plenty all around. Think of someone who feels like they are sinking while sitting in a room full of good things. Nothing looks wrong outside, but inside they are going under.

Parents, children, brothers and sisters are very dear. Family is precious. The point is that love needs the deeper water of the Name to truly carry us. The verse mentions kaam, craving. It aims at the ego's grasping, not at natural human love. Ha-umai Dhaat sansaaray — people rush around the world in haumai, the ego, the me-first feeling. That restless running is what the verse is naming.

Then the turn is hopeful, and it includes everyone. Aap tarai kul taaray — the one who holds the Name crosses over, and carries the whole family across too. Kul means family. The teaching is not a private rescue. It lifts everyone around you.

A Question to Sit With

How does something good in you — patience, kindness, calm — end up lifting the people around you too?

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