Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 367
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Stop Needing Approval and Criticism Becomes a Teacher

ਗਉੜੀ ॥
ga-orhee.
Gauree:
ਨਿੰਦਉ ਨਿੰਦਉ ਮੋ ਕਉ ਲੋਗੁ ਨਿੰਦਉ ॥
ninda-o ninda-o mo ka-o log ninda-o.
Slander me, slander me - go ahead, people, and slander me.
ਨਿੰਦਾ ਜਨ ਕਉ ਖਰੀ ਪਿਆਰੀ ॥
nindaa jan ka-o kharee pi-aaree.
Slander is pleasing to the Lord's humble servant.
ਨਿੰਦਾ ਬਾਪੁ ਨਿੰਦਾ ਮਹਤਾਰੀ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
nindaa baap nindaa mehtaaree. ||1|| rahaa-o.
Slander is my father, slander is my mother. ||1||Pause||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Go ahead — say what you like about me. Let the whole world find fault with me.

Strange as it sounds, I have made peace with being criticized. It has become like a parent to me — something that helps me grow up.

When you stop needing everyone's approval, even criticism can become a teacher.
The deeper layer

This is one of Kabir's boldest, most surprising songs. He takes the thing everyone fears — being talked about, put down, criticized — and turns it completely around. The rahao (the pause-line that holds the whole song's theme) sets the puzzle: how could slander be pleasing? Kabir is not celebrating cruelty. He is showing a mind so rooted in the One that other people's opinions can no longer shake it — and can even be put to use. Calling slander "father and mother" is his playful, riddle-loving way of saying: this is what raised me, this is what taught me not to depend on applause.

A Question to Sit With

Can you think of a time a hard comment actually helped you grow, even if it stung at first?

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