Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 77
Verse 1 of 5

Call It All Mine and Lose the Bigger Belonging

ਗਉੜੀ ਗੁਆਰੇਰੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥
ga-orhee gu-aarayree mehlaa 5.
Gauree Gwaarayree, Fifth Mehl:
ਪ੍ਰਾਣੀ ਜਾਣੈ ਇਹੁ ਤਨੁ ਮੇਰਾ ॥
paraanee jaanai ih tan mayraa.
The mortal claims this body as his own.
ਬਹੁਰਿ ਬਹੁਰਿ ਉਆਹੂ ਲਪਟੇਰਾ ॥
bahur bahur u-aahoo laptayraa.
Again and again, he clings to it.
ਪੁਤ੍ਰ ਕਲਤ੍ਰ ਗਿਰਸਤ ਕਾ ਫਾਸਾ ॥
putar kaltar girsat kaa faasaa.
He is entangled with his children, his wife and household affairs.
ਹੋਨੁ ਨ ਪਾਈਐ ਰਾਮ ਕੇ ਦਾਸਾ ॥੧॥
hon na paa-ee-ai raam kay daasaa. ||1||
He cannot be the slave of the Lord. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When I decide this body is just "mine," I cling to it. Again and again, I hold on tight.

I get tangled up in "my children, my family, my household." Then I lose sight of something larger. I forget I could belong to the One.

When you decide everything is just "mine," you lose sight of the bigger belonging.
The deeper layer

This one says that when we treat everything as "mine," we miss belonging to something bigger.

paraanee jaanai ih tan mayraa — a person thinks, "this body is mine." Then they cling to it again and again. Next comes putar kaltar girsat kaa faasaa, a net made of children, spouse and home. A faasaa is a snare, a loop that catches.

The result is hon na paa-ee-ai raam kay daasaa — the person cannot become the One's own. Daas means servant. Here it means belonging to the One, in a close and loving way.

Think of holding a pencil so tightly that your hand cramps. You cannot write. The pencil is not the problem. The grip is.

The point is not that family is bad. The point is that we mistake what is passing for our whole self. That keeps us small.

A Question to Sit With

What do you call "mine" that you're actually only holding for a while?

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