Sikhism·Siree Raag·Ashtapadee 5
Verse 6 of 9

By What Sensual Pleasures Has the Beautiful Soul-Bride Been Doomed?

ਪਿਰ ਕੀ ਨਾਰਿ ਸੁਹਾਵਣੀ ਮੁਤੀ ਸੋ ਕਿਤੁ ਸਾਦਿ ॥
pir kee naar suhaavanee mutee so kit saad.
The beautiful soul-bride of the Husband Lord-by what sensual pleasures has she been doomed?
ਪਿਰ ਕੈ ਕਾਮਿ ਨ ਆਵਈ ਬੋਲੇ ਫਾਦਿਲੁ ਬਾਦਿ ॥
pir kai kaam na aavee bolay faadil baad.
She is of no use to her Husband if she babbles in useless arguments.
ਦਰਿ ਘਰਿ ਢੋਈ ਨਾ ਲਹੈ ਛੂਟੀ ਦੂਜੈ ਸਾਦਿ ॥੫॥
dar ghar dho-ee naa lahai chhootee doojai saad. ||5||
At the Door of His Home, she finds no shelter; she is discarded for seeking other pleasures. ||5||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The beautiful soul-bride — by what sensual pleasures has she been doomed?

She is of no use to her Husband if she babbles in useless arguments.

At the Door of His Home, she finds no shelter. She is discarded for seeking other pleasures.

The soul-bride who argues instead of loves finds no shelter at the Door — what was needed was not debate but surrender.
The deeper layer

This one says that love matters more than winning arguments.

Pir kee naar suhaavanee mutee so kit saad: "the lovely bride — by what pleasures has she been fooled?" She was beautiful, but she chased other sweet things and lost her way.

Bolay faadil baad: she "talks in useless arguments." She argues and debates, but she forgets to love. Clever words cannot take the place of a loving heart. When she comes to the beloved's door, she finds no shelter there.

Think of a family dinner where one person only argues to win. They may win the point but lose the warm feeling at the table. The pleasures that looked so comforting are the very things that kept the bride away. What she needed was simple love.

A Question to Sit With

Is there any place where you analyze or argue about the spiritual life rather than actually living it? What would it look like to put down the argument and just practice?

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