Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa
Without the Husband, even the most beautiful bride is aching. All her jewelry, all her youth — going to waste.
Without Him, she cannot enjoy rest. The ornaments become absurd — beautiful things with no one to receive them.
The abandoned bride suffers deeply. The bed is empty. The home is empty. The Husband does not come.
The soul-bride (dhann) adorns herself with seegaar (ornaments, adornment) but without pir (the Husband, the divine Beloved) the adornment is baad — vain, wasted, going nowhere. The image captures something true about all outer spiritual performance: if the inner relationship is not alive, the outer expression is hollow.
Joban baad khuaar — youth wasted in wretchedness. Not a condemnation of youth or beauty, but an observation about the tragedy of outer beauty without the inner connection. In the culture Guru Nanak inhabited, the highest social honor was the sohaaganee (the married woman whose Husband is present and loving) and the greatest sorrow was the duhaagani (the abandoned or discarded wife). By using these charged images, he is describing the soul's situation in terms every listener would immediately feel.
The duhaagani appears in Shabad 107 as well. The continuity is deliberate: these two ashtapadees are a pair, both using the abandoned bride to explore what happens when the soul forgets or loses its connection to the divine. Shabad 107 then moves to dying in the Shabad. Shabad 108 will move to finding the Husband within.
Where in your life are you putting energy into the outer form of something whose inner connection has gone missing?
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