Sikhism·Siree Raag·Shabad 136
Verse 63 of 76

Vaar: Shalok (Mehl 3, XXVII)

ਮਃ ੩ ॥
mehlaa 3.
Third Mehl:
ਸਬਦਿ ਰਤੀ ਸੋਹਾਗਣੀ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਕੈ ਭਾਇ ਪਿਆਰਿ ॥
sabad ratee sohaaganee satgur kai bhaa-ay pi-aar.
The happy soul-bride is attuned to the Word of the Shabad; she is in love with the True Guru.
ਸਦਾ ਰਾਵੇ ਪਿਰੁ ਆਪਣਾ ਸਚੈ ਪ੍ਰੇਮਿ ਪਿਆਰਿ ॥
sadaa raavay pir aapnaa sachai paraym pi-aar.
She continually enjoys and ravishes her Beloved, with true love and affection.
ਅਤਿ ਸੁਆਲਿਉ ਸੁੰਦਰੀ ਸੋਭਾਵੰਤੀ ਨਾਰਿ ॥
at su-aali-o sundree sobhaavantee naar.
She is such a loveable, beautiful and noble woman.
ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮਿ ਸੋਹਾਗਣੀ ਮੇਲੀ ਮੇਲਣਹਾਰਿ ॥੨॥
naanak naam sohaaganee maylee maylanhaar. ||2||
O Nanak, through the Naam, the happy soul-bride unites with the Lord of Union. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The happy soul-bride is attuned to the Word of the Shabad — she is in love with the True Guru.

She continually enjoys and ravishes her Beloved with true love and affection.

She is loving, beautiful, and noble.

Nanak says: through the Naam, the happy soul-bride unites with the Lord of Union.

The happy soul-bride attuned to the Shabad enjoys the Lord continually and is made beautiful by the love.
The deeper layer

The positive pole

The contrast to Pauri61 is complete. Where the manmukh bride burns and cries, the Gurmukh bride enjoys. Suhāginī — the happy soul-bride, the one whose marriage is intact and joyful — is attuned to the Shabad. Her orientation is the Guru's teaching. And from that orientation flows:

Sadā bhog karai Pi'ārē, sach pirham pi'āri — "She continually enjoys and ravishes her Beloved, with true love and affection." The erotic language of divine union in Punjabi mystical poetry: the soul and the Lord in a continuous, mutual enjoyment. The bride does not merely receive — she ravishes. The relationship is fully mutual, fully alive, fully joyful.

"Lord of Union"

Nānak Nāmai suhāginī, Har milaī milanī thi'ā'i — "through the Naam, the happy soul-bride unites with the Lord of Union." Milanī — the Lord of Union, the one whose nature is union, the one who brings together what was separated. The soul-bride's marriage is with the Lord who is constitutionally the Joiner, the Reconciler, the Uniter. In Him, the separation ends.

The adjectives

Manmohaṇī suṇdarī sabhāvī — "she is loveable, beautiful and noble." These are the qualities that emerge from genuine devotion: she is loveable (others are drawn to her), beautiful (the inner beauty of alignment), and noble (sabhāvī — gentle, gracious, well-natured). These are not performed. They are the natural state of the genuinely connected soul.

A Question to Sit With

*Think of something you love that makes you feel genuinely good — not excited for a moment but actually peaceful and alive. What is that love doing to you? What does it reveal about what you need?*

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