Sikhism·Siree Raag·Shabad 140
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Baynee: Watch Three — Youth

ਤਰੁਣ ਤੇਜੁ ਪਰ ਤ੍ਰਿਅ ਮੁਖੁ ਜੋਹਹਿ ਸਰੁ ਅਪਸਰੁ ਨ ਪਛਾਣਿਆ ॥
tarun tayj par tari-a mukh joheh sar apsar na pachhaani-aa.
In the heat of youthful passion, you look with desire upon the faces of other men's wives; you do not distinguish between good and evil.
ਉਨਮਤ ਕਾਮਿ ਮਹਾ ਬਿਖੁ ਭੂਲੈ ਪਾਪੁ ਪੁੰਨੁ ਨ ਪਛਾਨਿਆ ॥
unmat kaam mahaa bikh bhoolai paap punn na pachhaani-aa.
Drunk with sexual desire and other great sins, you go astray, and do not distinguish between vice and virtue.
ਸੁਤ ਸੰਪਤਿ ਦੇਖਿ ਇਹੁ ਮਨੁ ਗਰਬਿਆ ਰਾਮੁ ਰਿਦੈ ਤੇ ਖੋਇਆ ॥
sut sampat daykh ih man garbi-aa raam ridai tay kho-i-aa.
Gazing upon your children and your property, your mind is proud and arrogant; you cast out the Lord from your heart.
ਅਵਰ ਮਰਤ ਮਾਇਆ ਮਨੁ ਤੋਲੇ ਤਉ ਭਗ ਮੁਖਿ ਜਨਮੁ ਵਿਗੋਇਆ ॥੩॥
avar marat maa-i-aa man tolay ta-o bhag mukh janam vigo-i-aa. ||3||
When others die, you measure your own wealth in your mind; you waste your life in the pleasures of the mouth and sexual organs. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The third watch is youth. And Baynee is honest about what youth does to many people: the energy of desire pulls them toward things they know they shouldn't pursue. The line between right and wrong gets blurry when the passions are strong.

Then come pride and possessiveness — look at my children, look at what I own. And in that pride, God gets pushed out of the heart. There's simply no room for Him when you're busy measuring your own success and defending your own territory.

The vices compound. Each one leads to another. Each one dulls the ability to tell right from wrong. By the time the third watch ends, the heart has lost something it didn't know it was losing.

In the heat of youth, pride in children and property push God out of the heart — there is no room for both.
The deeper layer

This pauri confronts the specific failures of youth directly, without euphemism. Kaam (sexual desire/lust) and maal (worldly wealth and possessions) are the twin forces that consume the third watch. What makes this spiritually precise is the causal chain: lust leads to sin, sin leads to confusion between virtue and vice, property leads to pride, pride leads to God being cast from the heart (hirdai the raam gavaio). It is not a moral catalogue but a sequence — each step leading to the next, ending in the catastrophe the whole shabad has been building toward.

A Question to Sit With

Can you think of a time when being proud of something you had made you feel more separated from what really matters?

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