Sikhism·Sukhmani Sahib·Sukhmani Sahib
Verse 155 of 216

First Loved, Then Changed

ਅਸਟਪਦੀ ॥
asatpadee.
Ashtapadee:
ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਸਿਖ ਕੀ ਕਰੈ ਪ੍ਰਤਿਪਾਲ ॥
satgur sikh kee karai partipaal.
The True Guru cherishes His Sikh.
ਸੇਵਕ ਕਉ ਗੁਰੁ ਸਦਾ ਦਇਆਲ ॥
sayvak ka-o gur sadaa da-i-aal.
The Guru is always merciful to His servant.
ਸਿਖ ਕੀ ਗੁਰੁ ਦੁਰਮਤਿ ਮਲੁ ਹਿਰੈ ॥
sikh kee gur durmat mal hirai.
The Guru washes away the filth of the evil intellect of His Sikh.
ਗੁਰ ਬਚਨੀ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਉਚਰੈ ॥
gur bachnee har naam uchrai.
Through the Guru's Teachings, he chants the Lord's Name.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਸਿਖ ਕੇ ਬੰਧਨ ਕਾਟੈ ॥
satgur sikh kay banDhan kaatai.
The True Guru cuts away the bonds of His Sikh.
ਗੁਰ ਕਾ ਸਿਖੁ ਬਿਕਾਰ ਤੇ ਹਾਟੈ ॥
gur kaa sikh bikaar tay haatai.
The Sikh of the Guru abstains from evil deeds.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਸਿਖ ਕਉ ਨਾਮ ਧਨੁ ਦੇਇ ॥
satgur sikh ka-o naam Dhan day-ay.
The True Guru gives His Sikh the wealth of the Naam.
ਗੁਰ ਕਾ ਸਿਖੁ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਹੇ ॥
gur kaa sikh vadbhaagee hay.
The Sikh of the Guru is very fortunate.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਸਿਖ ਕਾ ਹਲਤੁ ਪਲਤੁ ਸਵਾਰੈ ॥
satgur sikh kaa halat palat savaarai.
The True Guru arranges this world and the next for His Sikh.
ਨਾਨਕ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਸਿਖ ਕਉ ਜੀਅ ਨਾਲਿ ਸਮਾਰੈ ॥੧॥
naanak satgur sikh ka-o jee-a naal samaarai. ||1||
O Nanak, with the fullness of His heart, the True Guru mends His Sikh. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The True Guru tends the learner the way a gardener tends a favorite tree - merciful to the servant, always.

He rinses the grime of wrong thinking out of the learner's mind, and sets the Name on the learner's tongue.

He cuts the ropes the learner was tied with; after that, wrong deeds lose their pull. He hands over the wealth of the Name - what luck the learner has!

This world and the next - the Guru arranges both for him. With a whole heart, the True Guru mends His Sikh.

First loved, then changed - the Guru washes, cuts the ropes and hands over the wealth before the learner has done one thing.
The deeper layer

The Guru loves the learner first, and the change comes after.

Look at everything the True Guru does here, one thing after another. He cherishes. He shows mercy. He washes away durmat, the wrong thinking that muddies the mind. He teaches the Name. He cuts the ropes. He hands over the wealth of the Name. He arranges this world and the next. And last of all, savaarai: He mends. Earlier in Sukhmani, the One was called the Mender of what is broken. Now that same mending comes through the Guru.

Notice which way every gift flows: from the Guru to the learner. The learner does nothing here but receive. The only thing said about him is that he is vadbhaagee, very lucky.

That order matters. The next verse talks about the learner's side. But first comes this: the bond starts as a gift, not a deal. The washing comes before the good deeds. The ropes are cut before the good behavior shows up.

Think of a new puppy at home. You love it before it has learned a single trick, and it learns because it is loved. No one behaves their way into the Guru's love. They are loved into behaving well.

A Question to Sit With

Which works better: getting cleaned up so someone will love you, or being loved so much you start to shine?

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