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Verse 35 of 216

We Build on Sand, and Mercy Remains Willing

ਸੰਗਿ ਸਹਾਈ ਸੁ ਆਵੈ ਨ ਚੀਤਿ ॥
sang sahaa-ee so aavai na cheet.
The Lord, our Help and Support, is always with us, but the mortal does not remember Him.
ਜੋ ਬੈਰਾਈ ਤਾ ਸਿਉ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਿ ॥
jo bairaa-ee taa si-o pareet.
He shows love to his enemies.
ਬਲੂਆ ਕੇ ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਭੀਤਰਿ ਬਸੈ ॥
baloo-aa kay garih bheetar basai.
He lives in a castle of sand.
ਅਨਦ ਕੇਲ ਮਾਇਆ ਰੰਗਿ ਰਸੈ ॥
anad kayl maa-i-aa rang rasai.
He enjoys the games of pleasure and the tastes of Maya.
ਦ੍ਰਿੜੁ ਕਰਿ ਮਾਨੈ ਮਨਹਿ ਪ੍ਰਤੀਤਿ ॥
darirh kar maanai maneh parteet.
He believes them to be permanent - this is the belief of his mind.
ਕਾਲੁ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਮੂੜੇ ਚੀਤਿ ॥
kaal na aavai moorhay cheet.
Death does not even come to mind for the fool.
ਬੈਰ ਬਿਰੋਧ ਕਾਮ ਕ੍ਰੋਧ ਮੋਹ ॥
bair biroDh kaam kroDh moh.
Hate, conflict, sexual desire, anger, emotional attachment,
ਝੂਠ ਬਿਕਾਰ ਮਹਾ ਲੋਭ ਧ੍ਰੋਹ ॥
jhooth bikaar mahaa lobh Dharoh.
falsehood, corruption, immense greed and deceit:
ਇਆਹੂ ਜੁਗਤਿ ਬਿਹਾਨੇ ਕਈ ਜਨਮ ॥
i-aahoo jugat bihaanay ka-ee janam.
So many lifetimes are wasted in these ways.
ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਖਿ ਲੇਹੁ ਆਪਨ ਕਰਿ ਕਰਮ ॥੭॥
naanak raakh layho aapan kar karam. ||7||
Nanak: uplift them, and redeem them, O Lord - show Your Mercy! ||7||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The Helper is right beside us, and we do not think of Him - while we give our love to things that hurt us.

We build our homes in castles of sand and play games of pleasure, certain they will last forever.

The end does not even cross our minds. Hate, conflict, craving, anger, clinging, lying, cheating, bottomless greed -

whole lifetimes drain away in these. Nanak says: lift us, redeem us, Mercy - it is all we have left to ask.

We build on sand, love our enemies within, and forget the end - and Mercy remains willing.
The deeper layer

We build our lives on sand as if it were stone, and mercy is still willing to lift us.

The main picture is the house of sand. Baloo-aa kay garih bheetar basai — they live inside a house of sand. It is not evil. It just does not last. And we live in it as if it will. Think of a sandcastle on the beach, with the tide coming in.

Jo bairaa-ee taa si-o pareet — they love their enemies. This does not mean other people. The enemies are named a few lines later. Hate, fighting, kaam (runaway desire), krodh (anger), moh (clinging), lying, cheating, huge greed, and trickery. These are the five thieves of the heart, the Panch Vikaar, plus their cousins.

We love the very things that are tearing us down. It is like a hand that keeps reaching for a hot stove.

Kaal na aavai moorhay cheet — the end does not even come to mind. This is Gurbani being honest, not gloomy. Pretending the sand is stone is what wastes whole lifetimes.

And once more the ending will not give up. Naanak raakh layho aapan kar karam — save them, show Your mercy. This is the fourth verse in a row to end with a prayer for the very people it describes.

A Question to Sit With

If you honestly knew your time was limited, what would you stop wasting it on first?

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