Sikhism·Closing Sections·The Closing Saloks
Verse 6 of 71

Salok Sehskritee, Salok 6 — Love That Clings, Love That Lasts

ਧ੍ਰਿਗੰਤ ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਸਨੇਹੰ ਧ੍ਰਿਗ ਸਨੇਹੰ ਭ੍ਰਾਤ ਬਾਂਧਵਹ ॥
Dharigant maat pitaa sanayhaN Dharig sanayhaN bharaat baaNDhvah.
Cursed is loving attachment to one's mother and father; cursed is loving attachment to one's siblings and relatives.
ਧ੍ਰਿਗ ਸ੍ਨੇਹੰ ਬਨਿਤਾ ਬਿਲਾਸ ਸੁਤਹ ॥
Dharig sneh-aN banitaa bilaas sutah.
Cursed is attachment to the joys of family life with one's spouse and children.
ਧ੍ਰਿਗ ਸ੍ਨੇਹੰ ਗ੍ਰਿਹਾਰਥ ਕਹ ॥
Dharig sneh-aN garihaarath kah.
Cursed is attachment to household affairs.
ਸਾਧਸੰਗ ਸ੍ਨੇਹ ਸਤ੍ਯ੍ਯਿੰ ਸੁਖਯੰ ਬਸੰਤਿ ਨਾਨਕਹ ॥੨॥
saaDhsang sneh sati-yaN sukh-yaN basant naankah. ||2||
Only loving attachment to the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy, is True. Nanak dwells there in peace. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Shame on clinging to mother and father. Shame on clinging to brothers and relatives.

Shame on clinging to the joys of family life, with husband or wife and children.

Shame on clinging to the business of the house.

Only love for the Sangat is true. Nanak says: there I live in peace.

Love that clings to keep grows heavy; love rooted in the One grows light.
The deeper layer

Clinging to family and home cannot give lasting peace; love for the Sangat can.

Dhrig is a very strong word, something like "shame on it." It is a shock meant to wake the listener. Its target is sanayh in the sense of clinging, the grip that turns family and home into the whole world and leaves no room for the One. Love for family is not the problem. The tight, forgetful grip is.

Saadhsang sneh satiyan: love for the Sangat, people gathered together to remember the One, is true. Sukhyan basant naankah: there Nanak lives in peace.

A Question to Sit With

Can you think of a time holding onto something too tightly made you feel worse, not better?

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