Sikhism·Closing Sections·The Closing Saloks
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Salok Sheikh Farid, Salok 1 — the wedding day already written

ਸਲੋਕ ਸੇਖ ਫਰੀਦ ਕੇ
salok saykh fareed kay
Shaloks Of Shaykh Fareed Jee:
ੴ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥
ik-oNkaar satgur parsaad.
One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru:
ਜਿਤੁ ਦਿਹਾੜੈ ਧਨ ਵਰੀ ਸਾਹੇ ਲਏ ਲਿਖਾਇ ॥
jit dihaarhai Dhan varee saahay la-ay likhaa-ay.
The day of the bride's wedding is pre-ordained.
ਮਲਕੁ ਜਿ ਕੰਨੀ ਸੁਣੀਦਾ ਮੁਹੁ ਦੇਖਾਲੇ ਆਇ ॥
malak je kannee suneedaa muhu daykhaalay aa-ay.
On that day, the Messenger of Death, of whom she had only heard, comes and shows its face.
ਜਿੰਦੁ ਨਿਮਾਣੀ ਕਢੀਐ ਹਡਾ ਕੂ ਕੜਕਾਇ ॥
jind nimaanee kadhee-ai hadaa koo karhkaa-ay.
It breaks the bones of the body and pulls the helpless soul out.
ਸਾਹੇ ਲਿਖੇ ਨ ਚਲਨੀ ਜਿੰਦੂ ਕੂੰ ਸਮਝਾਇ ॥
saahay likhay na chalnee jindoo kooN samjhaa-ay.
That pre-ordained time of marriage cannot be avoided. Explain this to your soul.
ਜਿੰਦੁ ਵਹੁਟੀ ਮਰਣੁ ਵਰੁ ਲੈ ਜਾਸੀ ਪਰਣਾਇ ॥
jind vahutee maran var lai jaasee parnaa-ay.
The soul is the bride, and death is the groom. He will marry her and take her away.
ਆਪਣ ਹਥੀ ਜੋਲਿ ਕੈ ਕੈ ਗਲਿ ਲਗੈ ਧਾਇ ॥
aapan hathee jol kai kai gal lagai Dhaa-ay.
After the body sends her away with its own hands, whose neck will it embrace?
ਵਾਲਹੁ ਨਿਕੀ ਪੁਰਸਲਾਤ ਕੰਨੀ ਨ ਸੁਣੀ ਆਇ ॥
vaalahu nikee puraslaat kannee na sunee aa-ay.
The bridge to hell is narrower than a hair; haven't you heard of it with your ears?
ਫਰੀਦਾ ਕਿੜੀ ਪਵੰਦੀਈ ਖੜਾ ਨ ਆਪੁ ਮੁਹਾਇ ॥੧॥
fareedaa kirhee pavaNdee-ee kharhaa na aap muhaa-ay. ||1||
Fareed, the call has come; be careful now - don't let yourself be robbed. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

There is only One. And the One is found by the True Guru's grace — a gift that is always here, waiting for an open heart.

The day of the bride's wedding is already written.

On that day the angel of death, whom she had only heard about, comes and shows its face.

The body's bones give way, and the helpless soul is drawn out.

The written time cannot be put off. Help your soul understand this.

The soul is the bride, and death is the groom. He will marry her and take her away.

After the body sends her off with its own hands, whose neck will it hug?

The bridge over hell is thinner than a hair — have you not heard of it with your own ears?

Farid says: the call has come. Be careful, and do not let yourself be robbed.

The day of leaving is set; do not let your days be stolen.
The deeper layer

Every life has a day already set for leaving, so do not let your days be stolen.

Sheikh Farid was a Muslim Sufi saint of Punjab who lived about eight hundred years ago. A Sufi is someone who longs to be close to the One with a loving heart. His saloks, short verses, were later placed in the Guru Granth Sahib.

Jit dihaarhai Dhan varee: the day the bride is married. Saahay la-ay likhaa-ay: its date is already written. Jind vahutee maran var: the soul is the bride, and death is the groom. Vaalahu nikee puraslaat: the bridge thinner than a hair, a picture from old Muslim teaching. These pictures are strong on purpose, made for grown-ups who saw loss up close.

The last line holds the point: kharhaa na aap muhaa-ay, do not stand by and let yourself be robbed of the time you have.

A Question to Sit With

If you treated today as precious, what would you make sure to do with it?

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa·How we use AI

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