Sikhism·Closing Sections·The Closing Saloks
Verse 332 of 450

Salok Sheikh Farid, Salok 31 — no place in either home

ਸਾਹੁਰੈ ਢੋਈ ਨਾ ਲਹੈ ਪੇਈਐ ਨਾਹੀ ਥਾਉ ॥
saahurai dho-ee naa lahai pay-ee-ai naahee thaa-o.
She finds no place of rest in her father-in-law's home, and no place in her parents' home either.
ਪਿਰੁ ਵਾਤੜੀ ਨ ਪੁਛਈ ਧਨ ਸੋਹਾਗਣਿ ਨਾਉ ॥੩੧॥
pir vaat-rhee na puchh-ee Dhan sohagan naa-o. ||31||
Her Husband Lord does not care for her; what sort of a blessed, happy soul-bride is she? ||31||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

She finds no rest in her in-laws' home, and no place in her parents' home either.

Her Husband does not even ask after her. What kind of happy bride is she, a bride in name only?

Without the Beloved, no home feels like home.
The deeper layer

A soul the Beloved does not turn to finds no resting place, in this world or the next.

The picture is the old one of a bride. Pay-ee-ai naahee thaa-o: no place in her parents' home, which stands for this life. Saahurai: her in-laws' home, which stands for the life after. In neither does she find rest.

Pir vaat-rhee na puchh-ee: her Husband does not ask after her. She carries the name of a happy bride, sohagan naa-o, but the love that would make it true is missing. The bride is the soul, and the Husband is the One.

A Question to Sit With

Where or with whom do you feel most at home?

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