Sikhism·Closing Sections·The Closing Saloks
Verse 364 of 450

Salok Sheikh Farid, Salok 63 — the time that does not come back

ਜਾਂ ਕੁਆਰੀ ਤਾ ਚਾਉ ਵੀਵਾਹੀ ਤਾਂ ਮਾਮਲੇ ॥
jaaN ku-aaree taa chaa-o veevaahee taaN maamlay.
When she is a virgin, she is full of desire; but when she is married, then her troubles begin.
ਫਰੀਦਾ ਏਹੋ ਪਛੋਤਾਉ ਵਤਿ ਕੁਆਰੀ ਨ ਥੀਐ ॥੬੩॥
fareedaa ayho pachhotaa-o vat ku-aaree na thee-ai. ||63||
Fareed, she has this one regret, that she cannot be a virgin again. ||63||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When a girl is not yet married, she is full of eager longing; once she is married, the troubles begin.

Farid says: now she has this one regret — she can never be unmarried again.

Get ready while there is time; that time does not come back.
The deeper layer

The time to get ready comes once, and it does not come back.

The picture comes from village life in Farid's time. A girl dreams of her wedding with chaa-o, eager joy. Once she is married, the maamlay begin, all the cares of a new household. Ayho pachhotaa-o: this is her one regret, that she cannot go back.

A common way to hear it: the unmarried time is this life, when there is still time to prepare. The wedding is the end of life, when every account comes due. The regret is for time that was not used well.

A Question to Sit With

What is something worth doing now, while there is time?

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