Sikhism·Dakhnee Onkaar·Shabad 111
Verse 29 of 55

The Knot Tied Again

ਟੂਟੈ ਨੇਹੁ ਕਿ ਬੋਲਹਿ ਸਹੀ ॥
tootai nayhu ke boleh sahee.
Love is broken, when one speaks in defiance.
ਟੂਟੈ ਬਾਹ ਦੁਹੂ ਦਿਸ ਗਹੀ ॥
tootai baah duhoo dis gahee.
The arm is broken, when it is pulled from both sides.
ਟੂਟਿ ਪਰੀਤਿ ਗਈ ਬੁਰ ਬੋਲਿ ॥
toot pareet ga-ee bur bol.
Love breaks, when the speech goes sour.
ਦੁਰਮਤਿ ਪਰਹਰਿ ਛਾਡੀ ਢੋਲਿ ॥
durmat parhar chhaadee dhol.
The Husband Lord abandons and leaves behind the evil-minded bride.
ਟੂਟੈ ਗੰਠਿ ਪੜੈ ਵੀਚਾਰਿ ॥
tootai ganth parhai veechaar.
The broken knot is tied again, through contemplation and meditation.
ਗੁਰ ਸਬਦੀ ਘਰਿ ਕਾਰਜੁ ਸਾਰਿ ॥
gur sabdee ghar kaaraj saar.
Through the Word of the Guru's Shabad, one's affairs are resolved in one's own home.
ਲਾਹਾ ਸਾਚੁ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਤੋਟਾ ॥
laahaa saach na aavai totaa.
One who earns the profit of the True Name, will not lose it again;
ਤ੍ਰਿਭਵਣ ਠਾਕੁਰੁ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਮੁ ਮੋਟਾ ॥੨੮॥
taribhavan thaakur pareetam motaa. ||28||
the Lord and Master of the three worlds is your best friend. ||28||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Love breaks when we answer back in defiance — the way an arm breaks when it's pulled hard from both sides.

Love snaps when words turn sour.

The Beloved leaves behind the bride whose mind has turned unkind.

But a broken knot can be tied again, through quiet reflection.

Through the Guru's Word, things come right within your own home.

Whoever earns the profit of Truth never loses it — the Master of all the worlds is your very best friend.

Harsh words break bonds — but a broken bond can be tied again with care.
The deeper layer

Harsh speech (bur bol) breaks love, like an arm pulled from both sides, and the Beloved leaves behind the bride lost in durmat, an unkind, crooked mind. Then comes the turn: tootai ganth parhai veechaar — the broken knot is retied through reflection, and affairs are mended at home.

A Question to Sit With

Is there a bond of yours that could be gently tied back together?

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa·How we use AI

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