Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 135
Verse 4 of 5

Pressing Your Claim Loses; Humility Wins the Justice

ਦਾਦੀ ਦਾਦਿ ਨ ਪਹੁਚਨਹਾਰਾ ਚੂਪੀ ਨਿਰਨਉ ਪਾਇਆ ਰੇ ॥
daadee daad na pahuchanhaaraa choopee nirna-o paa-i-aa ray.
The claimant does not succeed by placing his claim, but by keeping silent, he obtains justice.
ਮਾਲਿ ਦੁਲੀਚੈ ਬੈਠੀ ਲੇ ਮਿਰਤਕੁ ਨੈਨ ਦਿਖਾਲਨੁ ਧਾਇਆ ਰੇ ॥੩॥
maal duleechai baithee lay mirtak nain dikhaalan Dhaa-i-aa ray. ||3||
The dead sit on costly carpets, and what is seen with the eyes shall vanish. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The one who presses his claim does not win; the one who keeps silent receives justice.

The dead sit on costly carpets — and all that the eye can see will vanish.

Pressing your claim loses; quiet humility wins the justice you were after.
The deeper layer

This one says that pushing to get your way loses, while being humble wins.

Here are two more surprises. Daadee daad na pahuchanhaaraa choopee nirna-o paa-i-aa — the one who keeps shouting their case does not win. The one who stays quiet and humble gets what is fair. Always pushing to be first loses. Humility wins.

Think of two kids waiting for a turn on the swing. One keeps yelling, "Me! Me!" The other waits kindly. Often it is the patient one the teacher calls.

The next line is a strange one: "the dead sit on costly carpets." It means the person whose proud "me" has died away. That person now sits in real honor. And nain dikhaalan dhaa-i-aa — everything the eyes can see will one day fade. So the verse points us to what lasts.

A Question to Sit With

When has staying quiet served you better than insisting on being right?

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