Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 268
Verse 4 of 11

Mourn Gently, but Prepare for Your Own Crossing

ਓਹੀ ਓਹੀ ਕਿਆ ਕਰਹੁ ਹੈ ਹੋਸੀ ਸੋਈ ॥
ohee ohee ki-aa karahu hai hosee so-ee.
Why do you cry out and mourn for the dead? The Lord is, and shall always be.
ਤੁਮ ਰੋਵਹੁਗੇ ਓਸ ਨੋ ਤੁਮ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਕਉ ਕਉਣੁ ਰੋਈ ॥੩॥
tum rovhugay os no tumH ka-o ka-un ro-ee. ||3||
You mourn for that person, but who will mourn for you? ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Why do you wail and mourn for the one who has died? The Lord is, and shall always be.

You mourn for that person — but who will mourn for you?

Mourn the dead gently — and remember the one death you can still prepare for.
The deeper layer

Two consolations in one couplet, each sharper than it first sounds. First: the Lord is, and shall always be — the beloved dead have not fallen out of existence but deeper into it; what held them holds them still. Second, the turn no mourner expects: who will mourn for you? Not a taunt — a redirection. The energy spent wailing over the unchangeable is exactly the energy needed for the one death still open to preparation: your own. Grief is honored in Gurbani; what this verse questions is grief as a substitute for waking.

A Question to Sit With

Does remembering that you will die someday make today feel smaller, or more precious?

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