Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa
Some hold their impulses under strict control and are honored as celibates.
But without the Guru's Word they are not carried across; they wander through birth after birth.
Willpower alone just grips tighter. Only the Guru's Word opens the hand.
The fifth door is strong self-control. Jatee were people who chose never to marry, to master the body's desires. Many counted this the very top of discipline. The verse does not deny their effort. It says the effort does not add up to crossing over.
Here is why. Even perfect willpower is still "me" holding onto "me." Think of a fist squeezing a handful of sand. The harder you squeeze, the more slips away. Bin gur sabad na chhoothee — without the Guru's Word, they are not set free. The Word does what force cannot. It melts the gripping "I" instead of making it stronger. Discipline is a good helper on the path, but it is not the top. Without grace through the Word, the soul keeps coming and going, however hard it tries.
Where in your life does trying harder actually work — and where does it just tighten the knot?
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