Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa
The deserted brides never find the Mansion of the Beloved's Presence — they do not even know His taste.
Their words come out flavorless and harsh; they will not bow; their love is pledged to another.
This shabad begins with a sad picture: a bride who lives in her husband's house but never meets him.
Raag Aasaa often pictures the soul as a bride and the One as her Beloved. Here we see the sorrowful side. The duhaaganee is the lonely, separated bride. She lives in the Beloved's own house, yet never finds Him. Na jaanan pir kaa su-aa-o — she does not even know His taste, what He is like.
The verse names three reasons. First, her speech is fikaa, flavorless and harsh. A tongue that has never tasted sweetness cannot speak sweetly. Second, naa niveh — she does not bow. Her pride will not soften into respect. Third, underneath both, is the real hurt: doojaa bhaa-o, love given to another.
Think of sitting next to a friend while staring at your phone the whole time. The friend has not gone anywhere. Your attention has. Being far from the Beloved is never the Beloved leaving. It is the soul's heart, given somewhere else.
What holds your deepest attention these days — and is it worthy of that seat?
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