Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 343
Verse 3 of 5

The Time to Love People Well Is Now

ਕਾ ਕੀ ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਕਹੁ ਕਾ ਕੋ ਕਵਨ ਪੁਰਖ ਕੀ ਜੋਈ ॥
kaa kee maat pitaa kaho kaa ko kavan purakh kee jo-ee.
Tell me, whose mother is that, whose father is that, and which man has a wife?
ਘਟ ਫੂਟੇ ਕੋਊ ਬਾਤ ਨ ਪੂਛੈ ਕਾਢਹੁ ਕਾਢਹੁ ਹੋਈ ॥੨॥
ghat footay ko-oo baat na poochhai kaadhahu kaadhahu ho-ee. ||2||
When the pitcher of the body breaks, no one cares for you at all. Everyone says, "Take him away, take him away!"||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When someone we love is gone, all the words like 'mother,' 'father,' 'family' can't hold them here.

The body is like a clay pot — once it breaks, it can't be kept, however much we love the person.

Our love for people is real and precious — and because no one stays forever, the time to love them well is now.
The deeper layer

Kabir looks honestly at the mystery of death — something children think about too. He asks the hard questions plainly: whose mother, whose father, whose wife? — meaning, when someone dies, all our loving words and relationships, real and precious as they are, cannot keep the person's body here. The pitcher of the body breaks (his recurring clay-pot image) and cannot be mended. It sounds stark, but Kabir isn't being cold; he's being honest about something everyone eventually meets, so that we treasure people while they're here and don't put off love. The bonds are real and beautiful — and precisely because the lamp doesn't burn forever, the time to love is now.

A Question to Sit With

How does remembering that time is precious change how you treat the people you love?

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