Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 349
Verse 4 of 6

Don't Leave the Kind Words Unsaid

ਚਰਨ ਸੀਸੁ ਕਰ ਕੰਪਨ ਲਾਗੇ ਨੈਨੀ ਨੀਰੁ ਅਸਾਰ ਬਹੈ ॥
charan sees kar kampan laagay nainee neer asaar bahai.
His feet and head and hands begin to tremble, and the tears flow copiously from his eyes.
ਜਿਹਵਾ ਬਚਨੁ ਸੁਧੁ ਨਹੀ ਨਿਕਸੈ ਤਬ ਰੇ ਧਰਮ ਕੀ ਆਸ ਕਰੈ ॥੩॥
jihvaa bachan suDh nahee niksai tab ray Dharam kee aas karai. ||3||
His tongue has not spoken the correct words, but now, he hopes to practice religion! ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When we've put things off too long, we can end up shaky and full of regret, only then wishing we'd lived differently.

It's much kinder to ourselves to start living well while we still have the strength.

Don't leave the kind words unsaid or the loving for 'someday' — it's kinder to yourself to start living well now.
The deeper layer

Kabir paints the ache of regret that comes too late: hands and head trembling, tears flowing, a person who never spoke the kind and true words now suddenly hoping to become good at the very end. It's a tender, sad picture — not meant to shame, but to spare the reader from living it. The whole point of showing the regret is so a child avoids it: don't leave the kind words unsaid, don't leave the loving and the remembering for 'someday.' The gift Kabir is really offering is a head start — the chance to start living well now, while there's strength and time, so that the trembling end, if it comes, is full of peace instead of 'I wish I had.'

A Question to Sit With

Is there a kind word or a good habit you could start today, rather than leaving it for 'someday'?

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