Sikhism·Raag Aasaa·Shabad 364
Verse 1 of 4

Sometimes You Long, Prepare, and It Hasn't Come Yet

ਆਸਾ ॥ ਤਿਪਦਾ ॥ ਇਕਤੁਕਾ ॥
aasaa. tipdaa. iktukaa.
Aasaa, Ti-Pada, Ik-Tuka:
ਕੀਓ ਸਿੰਗਾਰੁ ਮਿਲਨ ਕੇ ਤਾਈ ॥
kee-o singaar milan kay taa-ee.
I have decorated myself to meet my Husband Lord.
ਹਰਿ ਨ ਮਿਲੇ ਜਗਜੀਵਨ ਗੁਸਾਈ ॥੧॥
har na milay jagjeevan gusaa-ee. ||1||
But the Lord, the Life of the Word, the Sustainer of the Universe, has not come to meet me. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

I've prepared myself and made myself ready, longing to meet the One I love.

But the meeting I long for hasn't happened yet.

Sometimes you long for something good with your whole heart, and prepare for it — and still it hasn't come yet.
The deeper layer

Kabir uses the tender image of a bride preparing to meet her Beloved: I have decorated myself to meet my Husband Lord — made himself ready, done everything a longing heart does in anticipation — but the Lord has not yet come to meet me. It's the honest ache of waiting for a union your whole heart is prepared for. This is real spiritual experience, and it's healthy for a child to know it's normal: sometimes you long for the One, you make yourself ready, you do everything right — and still the felt meeting hasn't come yet. The longing itself is precious, and the waiting isn't a failure. The next verses gently explain why union can take time.

A Question to Sit With

Is it okay to keep longing and preparing for something good, even while you're still waiting for it?

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