Sikhism·Raag Bihaagraa·Shabad 12
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The Sweetest Safety Is Holding On So You Don't Get Lost

ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥
bihaagarhaa mehlaa 5.
Bihaagraa, Fifth Mehl:
ਖੋਜਤ ਸੰਤ ਫਿਰਹਿ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਪ੍ਰਾਣ ਅਧਾਰੇ ਰਾਮ ॥
khojat sant fireh parabh paraan aDhaaray raam.
The Saints go around, searching for God, the support of their breath of life.
ਤਾਣੁ ਤਨੁ ਖੀਨ ਭਇਆ ਬਿਨੁ ਮਿਲਤ ਪਿਆਰੇ ਰਾਮ ॥
taan tan kheen bha-i-aa bin milat pi-aaray raam.
They lose the strength of their bodies, if they do not merge with their Beloved Lord.
ਪ੍ਰਭ ਮਿਲਹੁ ਪਿਆਰੇ ਮਇਆ ਧਾਰੇ ਕਰਿ ਦਇਆ ਲੜਿ ਲਾਇ ਲੀਜੀਐ ॥
parabh milhu pi-aaray ma-i-aa Dhaaray kar da-i-aa larh laa-ay leejee-ai.
O God, my Beloved, please, bestow Your kindness upon me, that I may merge with You; by Your Mercy, attach me to the hem of Your robe.
ਦੇਹਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਅਪਨਾ ਜਪਉ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਹਰਿ ਦਰਸ ਪੇਖੇ ਜੀਜੀਐ ॥
deh naam apnaa japa-o su-aamee har daras paykhay jeejee-ai.
Bless me with Your Name, that I may chant it, O Lord and Master; beholding the Blessed Vision of Your Darshan, I live.
ਸਮਰਥ ਪੂਰਨ ਸਦਾ ਨਿਹਚਲ ਊਚ ਅਗਮ ਅਪਾਰੇ ॥
samrath pooran sadaa nihchal ooch agam apaaray.
He is all-powerful, perfect, eternal and unchanging, exalted, unapproachable and infinite.
ਬਿਨਵੰਤਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਧਾਰਿ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਮਿਲਹੁ ਪ੍ਰਾਨ ਪਿਆਰੇ ॥੧॥
binvant naanak Dhaar kirpaa milhu paraan pi-aaray. ||1||
Prays Nanak, bestow Your Mercy upon me, O Beloved of my soul, that I may merge with You. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

People who love the One go about searching for the very breath of their life.

Their strength drains away when they feel far from the One they love.

"Be kind to me," the heart asks, "and let me hold onto the hem of Your robe."

Give me Your Name to say, for it's in seeing You that I truly come alive.

The One is strong and whole and never-changing, higher and wider than I can reach.

"Be gentle with me, dearest, and let me be close to You."

The sweetest kind of safety is holding on to someone you love so you won't get lost in the crowd.
The deeper layer

This one says the sweetest safety is holding on to the One so you don't get lost.

Khojat sant fireh — the loving ones go around searching for the One, the support of their very breath. Their longing is so strong that, apart from the Beloved, they feel their strength drain away.

Then comes a tender picture. Kar da-i-aa larh laa-ay leejee-ai — be kind, and let me hold the edge of Your robe. Think of a small child in a crowded market, holding tight to a parent's shirt so they won't get lost.

The verse puts two things side by side. The One is samrath, all-powerful, and agam apaaray, out of reach and without end. And yet the soul asks to hold the hem, as close as a child. Guru Arjan, the Fifth Guru, keeps weaving the huge and the close together like this.

It ends, as so many verses do, by asking for kindness. Closeness is asked for and received, never grabbed.

When you love someone, being far from them takes the energy right out of you. The sweetest safety is holding on, so you won't get lost.

A Question to Sit With

Who is someone whose 'hem' you'd want to hold onto so you'd always feel safe?

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