Sikhism·Raag Bihaagraa·Shabad 16
Verse 19 of 64

A Ritual Done for Show Becomes a Tangle

ਸਲੋਕ ਮਃ ੩ ॥
salok mehlaa 3.
Shalok, Third Mehl:
ਕਰਮ ਧਰਮ ਸਭਿ ਬੰਧਨਾ ਪਾਪ ਪੁੰਨ ਸਨਬੰਧੁ ॥
karam Dharam sabh banDhnaa paap punn san-banDh.
Rituals and religions are all just entanglements; bad and good are bound up with them.
ਮਮਤਾ ਮੋਹੁ ਸੁ ਬੰਧਨਾ ਪੁਤ੍ਰ ਕਲਤ੍ਰ ਸੁ ਧੰਧੁ ॥
mamtaa moh so banDhnaa putar kaltar so DhanDh.
Those things done for the sake of children and spouse, in ego and attachment, are just more bonds.
ਜਹ ਦੇਖਾ ਤਹ ਜੇਵਰੀ ਮਾਇਆ ਕਾ ਸਨਬੰਧੁ ॥
jah daykhaa tah jayvree maa-i-aa kaa san-banDh.
Wherever I look, there I see the noose of attachment to Maya.
ਨਾਨਕ ਸਚੇ ਨਾਮ ਬਿਨੁ ਵਰਤਣਿ ਵਰਤੈ ਅੰਧੁ ॥੧॥
naanak sachay naam bin vartan vartai anDh. ||1||
O Nanak, without the True Name, the world is engrossed in blind entanglements. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Even good-looking rituals can become tangles if the heart isn't in them.

Things we do just for show, or out of pure grabbiness, quietly tie us up.

But keep what's real and true at the center, and the tangles loosen on their own.

A ritual done for show becomes a tangle — it's the heart inside an action that sets you free.
The deeper layer

This one says even good deeds can tie us up when the heart is not in them.

Karam and dharam, rituals and religious duties, can all become ties that bind. The verse adds that good and bad deeds are tied up with them too.

This is not against faith. The Gurus themselves taught and practiced devotion. It is against empty form: a ritual done only for show.

The verse also names things done for our children and spouse out of pride and clinging. Those become ties too. They turn into ropes instead of wings.

Think of saying "sorry" only because a teacher is watching. The words are right, but nothing inside has changed.

Jah daykhaa tah jayvree — wherever I look, I see the rope of attachment to Maya, the passing show of the world. The tangle is everywhere, until the True Name is at the center. It is the heart in it that makes the difference.

A Question to Sit With

What's the difference between doing something kind because you mean it and doing it just to look good?

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