Sikhism·Raag Bihaagraa·Shabad 16
Verse 51 of 64

A Heart Keeping Good Close Finds Endings Gentle

ਮਃ ੩ ॥
mehlaa 3.
Third Mehl:
ਕਿਆ ਜਾਣਾ ਕਿਵ ਮਰਹਗੇ ਕੈਸਾ ਮਰਣਾ ਹੋਇ ॥
ki-aa jaanaa kiv marhagay kaisaa marnaa ho-ay.
What do I know? How will I die? What sort of death will it be?
ਜੇ ਕਰਿ ਸਾਹਿਬੁ ਮਨਹੁ ਨ ਵੀਸਰੈ ਤਾ ਸਹਿਲਾ ਮਰਣਾ ਹੋਇ ॥
jay kar saahib manhu na veesrai taa sahilaa marnaa ho-ay.
If I do not forget the Lord Master from my mind, then my death will be easy.
ਮਰਣੈ ਤੇ ਜਗਤੁ ਡਰੈ ਜੀਵਿਆ ਲੋੜੈ ਸਭੁ ਕੋਇ ॥
marnai tay jagat darai jeevi-aa lorhai sabh ko-ay.
The world is terrified of death; everyone longs to live.
ਗੁਰ ਪਰਸਾਦੀ ਜੀਵਤੁ ਮਰੈ ਹੁਕਮੈ ਬੂਝੈ ਸੋਇ ॥
gur parsaadee jeevat marai hukmai boojhai so-ay.
By Guru's Grace, one who dies while yet alive, understands the Lord's Will.
ਨਾਨਕ ਐਸੀ ਮਰਨੀ ਜੋ ਮਰੈ ਤਾ ਸਦ ਜੀਵਣੁ ਹੋਇ ॥੨॥
naanak aisee marnee jo marai taa sad jeevan ho-ay. ||2||
O Nanak, one who dies such a death, lives forever. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

We can't know exactly how our story ends — and that's okay.

If we keep what's good close to our hearts, even endings can feel gentle, not scary.

Most people are frightened of endings and cling hard to more.

But quiet the grasping self while you're fully alive, and you understand the deep flow of things — and truly live.

A heart that keeps what's good close finds that even endings feel gentle, not frightening.
The deeper layer

This Shalok answers Kabir's (P49) in the third Guru's voice: "What do I know how I will die?... If I do not forget the Lord from my mind, then my death will be easy." The honest human fear is named — "the world is terrified of death; everyone longs to live" — and answered gently: a heart that keeps the One close finds even endings sahaylaa, easy, unfrightening. The qMonk voice keeps this as reassurance, not morbidity — the deep peace of a heart so full of good that endings lose their terror. "One who dies while alive lives forever" seals the Vaar's central paradox.

A Question to Sit With

What helps you feel calm and safe when you think about scary or uncertain things?

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