Sikhism·Raag Bihaagraa·Shabad 16
Verse 59 of 64

When We Forget, Coldness Creeps Even Into Homes

ਸਲੋਕ ਮਃ ੧ ॥
salok mehlaa 1.
Shalok, First Mehl:
ਕਲੀ ਅੰਦਰਿ ਨਾਨਕਾ ਜਿੰਨਾਂ ਦਾ ਅਉਤਾਰੁ ॥
kalee andar naankaa jinnaaN daa a-utaar.
In this Dark Age of Kali Yuga, O Nanak, the demons have taken birth.
ਪੁਤੁ ਜਿਨੂਰਾ ਧੀਅ ਜਿੰਨੂਰੀ ਜੋਰੂ ਜਿੰਨਾ ਦਾ ਸਿਕਦਾਰੁ ॥੧॥
put jinooraa Dhee-a jinnooree joroo jinna daa sikdaar. ||1||
The son is a demon, and the daughter is a demon; the wife is the chief of the demons. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

When people forget what really matters, a hard, selfish streak can creep into a whole time and place.

It can seep even into homes and families, where warmth and love are meant to live.

Remember the One, and the warmth comes back to our homes.

When we forget what matters, coldness can creep even into homes — but remembering brings the warmth back.
The deeper layer

This one is Guru Nanak's cry of sadness about a dark time.

Kalee andar naankaa — in this dark age, says Nanak. Kali Yuga means an age when people forget what matters most.

Read word for word, the lines are harsh. They use the word "demons" even for sons, daughters and wives. That is grief speaking about a broken time. It is not a rule about any group of people, and it is not a judgment on women.

The true center is this. When people forget what matters, selfishness can creep even into homes and families, the places where love is meant to live.

Think of a family at dinner where everyone stares at their own screen. Nobody is being cruel. But the warmth slips away without anyone noticing.

The cry points toward hope. This is what forgetting does. Remembering the One brings the warmth back into our closest bonds.

A Question to Sit With

What helps keep a home full of warmth and kindness instead of grumpiness?

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