Sikhism·Raag Bihaagraa·Shabad 7
Verse 2 of 4

In Loving Company, the Me-First Feeling Melts Away

ਆਵਹੁ ਮਿਲਹੁ ਸਹੇਲੀਹੋ ਮੇਰੇ ਲਾਲ ਜੀਉ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਅਰਾਧੇ ਰਾਮ ॥
aavhu milhu sahayleeho mayray laal jee-o har har naam araaDhay raam.
Come and join me, O my beautiful dear beloveds; let's worship the Name of the Lord, Har, Har.
ਕਰਿ ਸੇਵਹੁ ਪੂਰਾ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੂ ਮੇਰੇ ਲਾਲ ਜੀਉ ਜਮ ਕਾ ਮਾਰਗੁ ਸਾਧੇ ਰਾਮ ॥
kar sayvhu pooraa satguroo mayray laal jee-o jam kaa maarag saaDhay raam.
Let's serve the Perfect True Guru, O my dear beloveds, and clear away the Path of Death.
ਮਾਰਗੁ ਬਿਖੜਾ ਸਾਧਿ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਹਰਿ ਦਰਗਹ ਸੋਭਾ ਪਾਈਐ ॥
maarag bikh-rhaa saaDh gurmukh har dargeh sobhaa paa-ee-ai.
Having cleared the treacherous path, as Gurmukhs, we shall obtain honor in the Court of the Lord.
ਜਿਨ ਕਉ ਬਿਧਾਤੈ ਧੁਰਹੁ ਲਿਖਿਆ ਤਿਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਾ ਰੈਣਿ ਦਿਨੁ ਲਿਵ ਲਾਈਐ ॥
jin ka-o biDhaatai Dharahu likhi-aa tinHaa rain din liv laa-ee-ai.
Those who have such pre-ordained destiny, lovingly focus their consciousness on the Lord, night and day.
ਹਉਮੈ ਮਮਤਾ ਮੋਹੁ ਛੁਟਾ ਜਾ ਸੰਗਿ ਮਿਲਿਆ ਸਾਧੇ ॥
ha-umai mamtaa moh chhutaa jaa sang mili-aa saaDhay.
Self-conceit, egotism and emotional attachment are eradicated when one joins the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy.
ਜਨੁ ਕਹੈ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਮੁਕਤੁ ਹੋਆ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਅਰਾਧੇ ॥੨॥
jan kahai naanak mukat ho-aa har har naam araaDhay. ||2||
Says servant Nanak, one who contemplates the Name of the Lord, Har, Har, is liberated. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Come along with me, dear friends — let's remember the One together.

Let's learn from what is wise and true, and the fear of endings loses its sting.

Walking that road together, we find we're welcomed and honored where we truly belong.

When we keep company with loving people, the puffed-up, me-first feeling quietly melts, and we're set free.

Come along, friends — we walk this road together, and in loving company the me-first feeling melts away.
The deeper layer

The Chhant becomes an invitation: aao milho sajanaa — "come, join me, my friends." Guru Arjan's spiritual life is communal and warm, not solitary; the path is walked together. "Clear away the Path of Death" (jam pantha) is rendered as fear losing its sting — the memento mori turned toward reassurance rather than dread. The engine of transformation is again saadh sangat, holy company, which "eradicates self-conceit, egotism and attachment." Notice the verbs are plural: let's worship, let's serve, we obtain honor. For a child, the lesson is that goodness is something you do with others — you invite your friends along, and you grow lighter together.

A Question to Sit With

Who would you invite to come along with you toward something good?

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