Sikhism·Raag Dhanaasaree·Shabad 32
Verse 4 of 5

What We Clutch, We Cannot Keep

ਦੇਖਿ ਕੁਟੰਬੁ ਲੋਭਿ ਮੋਹਿਓ ਪ੍ਰਾਨੀ ਮਾਇਆ ਕਉ ਲਪਟਾਨਾ ॥
daykh kutamb lobh mohi-o paraanee maa-i-aa ka-o laptaanaa.
Gazing upon his family, the mortal is enticed by greed; he clings in attachment to Maya.
ਅਤਿ ਰਚਿਓ ਕਰਿ ਲੀਨੋ ਅਪੁਨਾ ਉਨਿ ਛੋਡਿ ਸਰਾਪਰ ਜਾਨਾ ॥੩॥
at rachi-o kar leeno apunaa un chhod saraapar jaanaa. ||3||
Totally engrossed in worldly things, he considers them to be his own; but in the end, he shall surely have to leave them behind. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Looking at all we have — family, belongings — it is easy to hold on tightly and call it all our own.

But whatever we clutch this way, one day we set it down and move on. However hard we grip, we cannot keep it.

You can love what you have without gripping it as if it were you.
The deeper layer

Love your family and your things, but hold them lightly.

Maa-i-aa ka-o laptaanaa — clinging to Maya, the passing world. The verse is not against loving your family. It is against a tight grip. That kind of grip starts to believe that what we hold is who we are.

Chhod saraapar jaanaa — surely, one day, we leave it all behind.

Think of holding sand. In an open hand, you can enjoy how it feels. Squeeze it in a fist and it pours out, and your hand hurts. What we love lightly, we can enjoy. What we clutch only aches.

A Question to Sit With

What is the difference between enjoying something and being unable to let it go?

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