Sikhism·Raag Dhanaasaree·Shabad 41
Verse 4 of 6

How Division Sneaks Into Every Home

ਮਾਇ ਬਾਪ ਪੂਤ ਹਿਤ ਭ੍ਰਾਤਾ ਉਨਿ ਘਰਿ ਘਰਿ ਮੇਲਿਓ ਦੂਆ ॥
maa-ay baap poot hit bharaataa un ghar ghar mayli-o doo-aa.
In each and every home, she has implanted the sense of duality in mother, father, children, friends and siblings.
ਕਿਸ ਹੀ ਵਾਧਿ ਘਾਟਿ ਕਿਸ ਹੀ ਪਹਿ ਸਗਲੇ ਲਰਿ ਲਰਿ ਮੂਆ ॥੩॥
kis hee vaaDh ghaat kis hee peh saglay lar lar moo-aa. ||3||
Some have more, and some have less; they fight and fight, to the death. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Into every home it slips a sense of mine and yours — between parents and children, friends and brothers and sisters.

One has a little more, one a little less, and so people quarrel and pull apart, forgetting they were ever one.

Most quarrels grow from a feeling of mine and yours, when we are all one family.
The deeper layer

Comparing who has more can pull a family apart, even though we are all one.

Un ghar ghar mayli-o doo-aa — into every home it has planted doo-aa, a feeling of two-ness. That means seeing "mine" and "yours" where there is really one. From that little seed of comparing, who has more and who has less, quarrels grow.

You might know it from siblings arguing over who got the bigger slice of cake. It is sad, and very familiar. Families are divided by the very idea of being separate. Ik Onkar, "there is One," is what dissolves that idea.

A Question to Sit With

When a small disagreement grows, is it often about who has more or less?

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