Sikhism·Raag Dhanaasaree·Shabad 98
Verse 4 of 5

True Words, Not Empty Ones

ਪਿਰ ਘਰਿ ਸੋਹੈ ਨਾਰਿ ਜੇ ਪਿਰ ਭਾਵਏ ਜੀਉ ॥
pir ghar sohai naar jay pir bhaav-ay jee-o.
The soul-bride looks so beautiful in the home of her Husband Lord, if she is pleasing to Him.
ਝੂਠੇ ਵੈਣ ਚਵੇ ਕਾਮਿ ਨ ਆਵਏ ਜੀਉ ॥
jhoothay vain chavay kaam na aav-ay jee-o.
It is of no use at all to speak false words.
ਝੂਠੁ ਅਲਾਵੈ ਕਾਮਿ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਨਾ ਪਿਰੁ ਦੇਖੈ ਨੈਣੀ ॥
jhooth alaavai kaam na aavai naa pir daykhai nainee.
If she speaks false, it is of no use to her, and she does not see her Husband Lord with her eyes.
ਅਵਗੁਣਿਆਰੀ ਕੰਤਿ ਵਿਸਾਰੀ ਛੂਟੀ ਵਿਧਣ ਰੈਣੀ ॥
avguni-aaree kant visaaree chhootee viDhan rainee.
Worthless, forgotten and abandoned by her Husband Lord, she passes her life-night without her Lord and Master.
ਗੁਰ ਸਬਦੁ ਨ ਮਾਨੈ ਫਾਹੀ ਫਾਥੀ ਸਾ ਧਨ ਮਹਲੁ ਨ ਪਾਏ ॥
gur sabad na maanai faahee faathee saa Dhan mahal na paa-ay.
Such a wife does not believe in the Word of the Guru's Shabad; she is caught in the net of the world, and does not obtain the Mansion of the Lord's Presence.
ਨਾਨਕ ਆਪੇ ਆਪੁ ਪਛਾਣੈ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਸਹਜਿ ਸਮਾਏ ॥੪॥
naanak aapay aap pachhaanai gurmukh sahj samaa-ay. ||4||
O Nanak, if she understands her own self, then, as Gurmukh, she merges in celestial peace. ||4||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

You feel most at home with the One when your heart is turned toward what's true.

Saying things you don't mean, just for show, doesn't help at all; empty words never brought anyone closer.

When a heart chases only pretend things, it stays tangled up and restless, missing the very One it's looking for.

But Nanak says: the moment you understand yourself, facing the Guru, you slip into a deep, natural peace, the ease of a heart that has stopped fighting itself.

Knowing your own self brings a deep, natural peace.
The deeper layer

Empty words do not bring us closer. Knowing ourselves does.

Jhoothay vain chavay kaam na aav-ay — false words are of no use at all. Guru Nanak sets this hollow talk beside aapay aap pachhaanai, truly knowing your own self. When a person knows themselves, they settle into sahj, a natural, easy peace.

The verse also paints a bride left alone through the night. Read gently, that is the ache of a heart caught in faahee, a net. The net is made of pretend things. It is like a kite tangled in a tree. It is stuck, but it can be freed. This is an ache we can recover from.

A Question to Sit With

Can you tell the difference between saying something for show and saying something you mean?

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