Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 238
Verse 2 of 4

The Things You're Surest Are Yours Are on Loan

ਜੋ ਤਨੁ ਤੈ ਅਪਨੋ ਕਰਿ ਮਾਨਿਓ ਅਰੁ ਸੁੰਦਰ ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਨਾਰੀ ॥
jo tan tai apno kar maani-o ar sundar garih naaree.
That body, which you believe to be your own, and your beautiful home and spouse
ਇਨ ਮੈਂ ਕਛੁ ਤੇਰੋ ਰੇ ਨਾਹਨਿ ਦੇਖੋ ਸੋਚ ਬਿਚਾਰੀ ॥੧॥
in maiN kachh tayro ray naahan daykho soch bichaaree. ||1||
- none of these is yours to keep. See this, reflect upon it and understand. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

This body you're so sure is yours, your beautiful home, the people in your life —

none of it is truly yours to keep forever. Look closely, think it through, and let yourself really understand this.

The things you're surest are "yours" are all on loan; holding them openly hurts less than clinging.
The deeper layer

This one says the things you feel surest are yours are really on loan.

The verse names what feels most "mine." Tan, the body. Garih, the home. Naaree, the spouse and household. Then it gently loosens the grip: in mai kachh tayro ray naahan — none of these is yours to keep.

This is not asking you to love people less. It asks you to hold everything a bit more openly. Clinging to what must change causes hurt.

Think of a library book you love. You can enjoy every page, and you know it goes back one day. Daykho soch bichaaree — look, think it through, understand. That makes it something to think about quietly, not a threat.

A Question to Sit With

What's the difference between loving something and needing to own it forever?

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