Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 251
Verse 5 of 9

Arguing and Self-Importance Never Bring You Close

ਵਾਦਿ ਅਹੰਕਾਰਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਮੇਲਾ ॥
vaad ahaNkaar naahee parabh maylaa.
Union with God is not obtained by arguments and egotism.
ਮਨੁ ਦੇ ਪਾਵਹਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ ॥
man day paavahi naam suhaylaa.
But by offering your mind, the comfort of the Naam is obtained.
ਦੂਜੈ ਭਾਇ ਅਗਿਆਨੁ ਦੁਹੇਲਾ ॥੪॥
doojai bhaa-ay agi-aan duhaylaa. ||4||
In the love of duality and ignorance, you shall suffer. ||4||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Arguing and puffing myself up never bring me close to the One. But when I offer up my mind, the Name settles me into ease. Living from the feeling of being cut off and above only brings hard, lonely going.

Arguing and self-importance never bring you close; offering your mind brings ease.
The deeper layer

Arguing and showing off keep the One far away; offering your mind brings you close.

Vaad ahankaar naahee parabh maylaa — arguing and ahankaar, self-importance, do not lead to meeting the One. Man day paavahi naam suhaylaa — give your mind, and the Name brings suhaylaa, ease.

Doojai bhaa-ay agi-aan duhaylaa — living in doojaa bhaa-o and not knowing is hard going. Doojaa bhaa-o is the feeling of being split off from the One, standing apart and above.

Think of two friends who keep arguing just to win. Neither gets any closer. When one of them simply opens up, the distance melts. Ego and arguing block the way. Offering yourself opens it.

A Question to Sit With

When has winning an argument left you feeling further from someone, not closer?

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