Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 265
Verse 8 of 9

When Ego's Fire Cools, Patience Takes Its Place

ਗੁਰਿ ਮਿਲਿਐ ਹਮ ਕਉ ਸਰੀਰ ਸੁਧਿ ਭਈ ॥
gur mili-ai ham ka-o sareer suDh bha-ee.
Meeting the Guru, I came to understand my body.
ਹਉਮੈ ਤ੍ਰਿਸਨਾ ਸਭ ਅਗਨਿ ਬੁਝਈ ॥
ha-umai tarisnaa sabh agan bujh-ee.
The fires of ego and desire have been totally quenched.
ਬਿਨਸੇ ਕ੍ਰੋਧ ਖਿਮਾ ਗਹਿ ਲਈ ॥੭॥
binsay kroDh khimaa geh la-ee. ||7||
Anger has been dispelled, and I have grasped hold of tolerance. ||7||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Meeting the teacher, I came to understand my own self, body and all. The burning of the "me-first" voice and endless wanting has cooled and gone quiet. Anger fell away, and in its place I took hold of patience — the strength to stay gentle even when it's hard.

When ego's fire cools, anger falls away and patience — staying gentle when it's hard — takes its place.
The deeper layer

Meeting the teacher cools the fire of ego, and patience grows.

Gur mili-ai ham ka-o sareer suDh bha-ee — meeting the Guru, I came to understand my own body and self. Knowing yourself is one of the fruits.

Ha-umai tarisnaa sabh agan bujh-ee — the agan, the fire, of ha-umai and tarisnaa is put out. Ha-umai is the ego, the me-first voice. Tarisnaa is endless wanting, a thirst that never stops. The fire is cooled, not beaten out. Think of a hot pan taken off the stove, slowly cooling.

Then comes a beautiful turn about how we act. Binsay kroDh khimaa geh la-ee — kroDh, anger, melts away, and I take hold of khimaa. Khimaa means patience, bearing things calmly, and forgiving. It is grabbed on purpose, like reaching for a railing. This is the practical heart of the shabad. Awe and the Name change more than feelings. They change who we are.

A Question to Sit With

The next time anger rises in you, what would it look like to reach for patience instead?

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