Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 283
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When the Heart Misses Its Love, Nothing Fills the Gap

ੴ ਸਤਿਨਾਮੁ ਕਰਤਾ ਪੁਰਖੁ ਗੁਰਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥
ik-oNkaar satnaam kartaa purakh gurparsaad.
One Universal Creator God. Truth Is The Name. Creative Being Personified. By Guru's Grace:
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ ਪੂਰਬੀ ਛੰਤ ਮਹਲਾ ੧ ॥
raag ga-orhee poorbee chhant mehlaa 1.
Raag Gauree Poorbee, Chhant, First Mehl:
ਮੁੰਧ ਰੈਣਿ ਦੁਹੇਲੜੀਆ ਜੀਉ ਨੀਦ ਨ ਆਵੈ ॥
munDh rain duhaylrhee-aa jee-o need na aavai.
For the bride, the night is painful; sleep does not come.
ਸਾ ਧਨ ਦੁਬਲੀਆ ਜੀਉ ਪਿਰ ਕੈ ਹਾਵੈ ॥
saa Dhan dublee-aa jee-o pir kai haavai.
The soul-bride has grown weak, in the pain of separation from her Husband Lord.
ਧਨ ਥੀਈ ਦੁਬਲਿ ਕੰਤ ਹਾਵੈ ਕੇਵ ਨੈਣੀ ਦੇਖਏ ॥
Dhan thee-ee dubal kant haavai kayv nainee daykh-ay.
The soul-bride is wasting away, in the pain of separation from her Husband; how can she see Him with her eyes?
ਸੀਗਾਰ ਮਿਠ ਰਸ ਭੋਗ ਭੋਜਨ ਸਭੁ ਝੂਠੁ ਕਿਤੈ ਨ ਲੇਖਏ ॥
seegaar mith ras bhog bhojan sabh jhooth kitai na laykh-ay.
Her decorations, sweet foods, sensuous pleasures and delicacies are all false; they are of no account at all.
ਮੈ ਮਤ ਜੋਬਨਿ ਗਰਬਿ ਗਾਲੀ ਦੁਧਾ ਥਣੀ ਨ ਆਵਏ ॥
mai mat joban garab gaalee duDhaa thanee na aav-ay.
Intoxicated with the wine of youthful pride, she has been ruined, and her breasts no longer yield milk.
ਨਾਨਕ ਸਾ ਧਨ ਮਿਲੈ ਮਿਲਾਈ ਬਿਨੁ ਪਿਰ ਨੀਦ ਨ ਆਵਏ ॥੧॥
naanak saa Dhan milai milaa-ee bin pir need na aav-ay. ||1||
O Nanak, the soul-bride meets her Husband Lord, when He causes her to meet Him; without Him, sleep does not come to her. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The long night feels heavy when the heart is missing the One it loves; sleep will not come. Everything I once dressed up in — sweet treats, pretty things, easy comforts — feels empty when the deepest love is far away; none of it counts for much. What use is being caught up in youth and looking good, if the heart runs dry? But the soul finds its Beloved the moment the meeting is given as grace; without that love, the heart cannot rest.

When the heart misses what it loves most, no comfort or pretty thing can fill the gap.
The deeper layer

The Chhant form uses the soul-bride (saa dhan) longing for the Husband-Lord (pir) as an image of the soul aching for the One. This opening stanza (||1||) sets the night of separation. Per wellbeing rules, the literal's "wine of youthful pride has ruined her, her breasts no longer yield milk" is dropped — replaced with "if the heart runs dry" — keeping the meaning (outer beauty is empty without inner love) without the gendered-body image. Union comes only as grace (milai milaaee).

A Question to Sit With

What is something you've missed so much that nothing else could quite replace it?

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