Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 3
Verse 3 of 4

Build Your Household of Humility and Ease

ਸਰਮ ਸੁਰਤਿ ਦੁਇ ਸਸੁਰ ਭਏ ॥
saram surat du-ay sasur bha-ay.
Modesty, humility and intuitive understanding are my mother-in-law and father-in-law;
ਕਰਣੀ ਕਾਮਣਿ ਕਰਿ ਮਨ ਲਏ ॥੨॥
karnee kaaman kar man la-ay. ||2||
I have made good deeds my spouse. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Let modesty and humility be the elders who welcome you. Let quiet understanding guide you. And let your good actions be your life-partner, walking beside you every day.

Build your life's household out of humility, ease, and the things you actually do.
The deeper layer

A good life is a home you build out of how you act.

Guru Nanak carries the family picture one step further, into marriage. In his culture, a bride moves into her in-laws' home, and it becomes her second home. (Raag Maajh paints the full picture of the soul as a bride.)

In this new home, saram, modesty and humility, are the elders who welcome you. Surat, quiet understanding, is your guide. And karnee, your good actions, is your life-partner.

Picture moving into a new house. What makes it home is not the walls. It is the people you live with and how you treat each other. A spiritual life works the same way. It is not an idea up in the clouds. It is a home you actually live in, built from how you behave.

A Question to Sit With

What good action could become a steady companion in your daily life?

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