Sikhism·Raag Gauree·Shabad 367
Verse 4 of 4

Answer Harshness With Love and Stay Light

ਨਿੰਦਾ ਹਮਰੀ ਪ੍ਰੇਮ ਪਿਆਰੁ ॥
nindaa hamree paraym pi-aar.
I have love and affection for the slanderer.
ਨਿੰਦਾ ਹਮਰਾ ਕਰੈ ਉਧਾਰੁ ॥
nindaa hamraa karai uDhaar.
Slander is my salvation.
ਜਨ ਕਬੀਰ ਕਉ ਨਿੰਦਾ ਸਾਰੁ ॥
jan kabeer ka-o nindaa saar.
Slander is the best thing for servant Kabir.
ਨਿੰਦਕੁ ਡੂਬਾ ਹਮ ਉਤਰੇ ਪਾਰਿ ॥੩॥੨੦॥੭੧॥
nindak doobaa ham utray paar. ||3||20||71||
The slanderer is drowned, while I am carried across. ||3||20||71||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

So I hold love and warmth even for the one who finds fault with me.

Their words, in the end, help carry me forward.

This is the very best thing for me, Kabir — for while they sink under their own anger, I am lifted gently across.

Answer harshness with love, and you stay light enough to rise.
The deeper layer

The closing lands the song. Kabir returns to love — not grudging tolerance, but real prem-piaar (love and affection) for the critic. The last image, of the slanderer "drowning," is not a curse Kabir wishes on anyone; it is a natural picture of what happens to a heart soaked in resentment — it grows heavy and sinks, while the heart that stays light with love floats. Handled gently: the teaching is about which state to choose, not about anyone deserving punishment.

A Question to Sit With

When someone is unkind, what would help you stay light instead of heavy?

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