Sikhism·Raag Gond·Shabad 1
Verse 3 of 5

Things And People Cannot Carry You

ਜੋ ਦੀਸੈ ਮਾਇਆ ਮੋਹ ਕੁਟੰਬੁ ਸਭੁ ਮਤ ਤਿਸ ਕੀ ਆਸ ਲਗਿ ਜਨਮੁ ਗਵਾਈ ॥
jo deesai maa-i-aa moh kutamb sabh mat tis kee aas lag janam gavaa-ee.
That which you can see, Maya, and all attachment to family - don't place your hopes in them, or your life will be wasted and lost.
ਇਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਕੈ ਕਿਛੁ ਹਾਥਿ ਨਹੀ ਕਹਾ ਕਰਹਿ ਇਹਿ ਬਪੁੜੇ ਇਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਕਾ ਵਾਹਿਆ ਕਛੁ ਨ ਵਸਾਈ ॥
inH kai kichh haath nahee kahaa karahi ihi bapurhay inH kaa vaahi-aa kachh na vasaa-ee.
Nothing is in their hands; what can these poor creatures do? By their actions, nothing can be done.
ਮੇਰੇ ਮਨ ਆਸ ਕਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਮ ਅਪੁਨੇ ਕੀ ਜੋ ਤੁਝੁ ਤਾਰੈ ਤੇਰਾ ਕੁਟੰਬੁ ਸਭੁ ਛਡਾਈ ॥੨॥
mayray man aas kar har pareetam apunay kee jo tujh taarai tayraa kutamb sabh chhadaa-ee. ||2||
O my mind, place your hopes in the Lord, your Beloved, who shall carry you across, and save your whole family as well. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The glittering things I can see and hold -- this passing world is called Maya -- and even the people I love: none of them can be the ground I stand my whole hope on, or I lose my way.

That kind of power simply isn't in their hands to give, no matter how much they want to help.

So I place my hope in the One I love, who carries me safely across -- and carries everyone I love along with me.

Love your family fully, but let the One be the ground your deepest hope stands on.
The deeper layer

Maa-i-aa (Maya) here is not something evil -- it is just the visible, shifting world of things, together with the strong pull of kutamb (family) attachment. The teaching is not to stop loving your family; it is to not make them the foundation of your deepest hope, because inh kai kichh haath nahee -- that kind of power is not theirs to hand over. Then comes the beautiful turn: the One who carries you across also tayraa kutamb sabh chhadaa-ee, saves your whole family too. Loving them and hoping in the One were never in competition.

A Question to Sit With

Can you love someone deeply and still know they were never meant to carry everything for you?

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