Sikhism·Raag Goojaree·Shabad 22
Verse 1 of 5

Everyone You Lean On Is Carrying Their Own Load

ਗੂਜਰੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥
goojree mehlaa 5.
Goojaree, Fifth Mehl:
ਜਿਸੁ ਮਾਨੁਖ ਪਹਿ ਕਰਉ ਬੇਨਤੀ ਸੋ ਅਪਨੈ ਦੁਖਿ ਭਰਿਆ ॥
jis maanukh peh kara-o bayntee so apnai dukh bhari-aa.
Whoever I approach to ask for help, I find him full of his own troubles.
ਪਾਰਬ੍ਰਹਮੁ ਜਿਨਿ ਰਿਦੈ ਅਰਾਧਿਆ ਤਿਨਿ ਭਉ ਸਾਗਰੁ ਤਰਿਆ ॥੧॥
paarbarahm jin ridai araaDhi-aa tin bha-o saagar tari-aa. ||1||
One who worships in his heart the Supreme Lord God, crosses over the terrifying world-ocean. ||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Whoever I turn to for help, I find already weighed down with their own troubles.

The one who holds the Highest in their heart is the one who makes it across the frightening sea of life.

Everyone you lean on is carrying their own load too — which is why the heart needs one Support that isn't also struggling.
The deeper layer

The shabad opens with a lonely, honest observation: everyone you lean on is carrying their own load. This isn't cynicism about people — it's the recognition that no finite person can be an infinite support; they are crossing the same rough sea you are. The turn is gentle: the one who "worships in the heart" the Highest is carried over. Not because human help is worthless, but because there is one Support that isn't itself struggling to stay afloat.

A Question to Sit With

Have you ever been surprised to learn that someone you leaned on was quietly struggling themselves?

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