Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa
Right here, in this very life, the bride can come to know the One who gives all peace. How? By quieting the loud "me, me, me" of her ego, and by truly recognizing the **shabad**, the Guru's living Word. When she does, everything changes: her home becomes beautiful, she is always close to her Beloved, and her only jewelry — the thing that makes her lovely — is truth itself.
This verse says you don't have to leave your life to find peace. You wake up right inside it.
It is the mirror image of the verse before. Same bride, same world, same parents' home, but now she is awake. Pay-ee-arhai sukh-daata jaataa means "in her parents' home, she comes to know the Giver of peace." The difference isn't that she ran off somewhere else. The peace is found here, in this very life. You don't have to go anywhere. You have to wake up where you are. Sikhs have long connected this with the grihast way, honoring ordinary family life.
Two things do the waking. Ha-umai maar means "quieting the ego." Haumai is the feeling of being a separate "me," standing apart from the One. Quieting it doesn't mean being hard on yourself or squashing who you are. It means letting go of that lonely "me apart from everything."
Gur sabad pachhaataa means "she recognizes the Guru's Word." For Guru Amar Das, the shabad, the Guru's Word, is everything. It is the Word that makes the world and melts away the ego. When the Word is truly heard inside, it's like flicking on a light in a dark room. The darkness of the separate self has nowhere left to hide.
Then comes the wedding picture. Sayj suhaavee sadaa pir raavay means "her bed is lovely, and she is always with her Beloved." It is the soul finally at rest, together with the One.
And the loveliest detail: sach seegaar banaavani-aa means "she is dressed in the jewels of truth." Seegaar means jewelry and decoration. Her only ornament is sach, truth. The world dresses itself up in status, looks and trophies. All of that is kachaa, weak dye that fades in the wash. The awake soul wears only what is real, and that is what makes her shine. She isn't pretending to be good. She has become true, and truth is the most beautiful thing anyone can wear.
If "truth" were the only thing you wore as decoration, what in how you present yourself to the world might you let go of?
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