Sikhism·Raag Maajh·Shabad 86
Verse 7 of 8

A Bond of Love Does Not Break Like Obligation

ਕਰਤਾ ਮੰਨਿ ਵਸਾਇਆ ॥
kartaa man vasaa-i-aa.
I have enshrined the Creator within my mind;
ਜਨਮੈ ਕਾ ਫਲੁ ਪਾਇਆ ॥
janmai kaa fal paa-i-aa.
I have obtained the fruits of life's rewards.
ਮਨਿ ਭਾਵੰਦਾ ਕੰਤੁ ਹਰਿ ਤੇਰਾ ਥਿਰੁ ਹੋਆ ਸੋਹਾਗੁ ਜੀਉ ॥੭॥
man bhaavandaa kant har tayraa thir ho-aa sohaag jee-o. ||7||
If your Husband Lord is pleasing to your mind, then your married life shall be eternal. ||7||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

I've settled the Maker right inside my heart — and in doing so I've found what life was actually for.

And here's the secret for the soul: if your Beloved is truly dear to you, the bond between you never breaks. It lasts forever.

A bond held by obligation can break, but a bond held by real love does not — make the One genuinely dear to you, and the union becomes eternal.
The deeper layer

This stanza speaks of arrival and fulfillment. I have enshrined the Creator within my mind; I have obtained the fruits of life's rewards. To enshrine the One within is to give it the central, honored place in the heart — not a visitor but the resident of the inner shrine. And the result is phal, the fruit, the harvest — the sense that life has actually yielded what it was for. So many lives reach their end uncertain whether they amounted to anything; the soul that has enshrined the One within knows it has gathered the one fruit that matters.

Then the stanza turns, briefly and beautifully, to the soul-bride imagery that is the heartbeat of Raag Maajh: If your Husband Lord is pleasing to your mind, then your married life shall be eternal. The soul is the bride, the One is the Beloved Husband, and the suhaag — the married, united state — is the soul's union with the One. And here is the secret of a union that never ends: it rests on the Beloved being pleasing to your mind, genuinely dear to you. A bond held together only by obligation can break; a bond held by real love does not. If the One is truly your heart's delight — not a duty you perform but a Beloved you cherish — then the union with it is eternal, beyond the reach of anything that ends.

This quietly answers a fear that haunts all longing: what if I lose what I love? The answer is that this particular union, founded on the Beloved being dear, is the one bond that cannot be lost — because nothing outside can take away a love that lives within.

A Question to Sit With

What's the difference, in your own life, between a bond you keep out of duty and one you keep out of love?

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa·How we use AI

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