Sikhism·Raag Raamkalee·Shabad 113
Verse 39 of 74

The True Householder

ਮਃ ੧ ॥
mehlaa 1.
First Mehl:
ਸੋ ਗਿਰਹੀ ਜੋ ਨਿਗ੍ਰਹੁ ਕਰੈ ॥
so girhee jo nigarahu karai.
He alone is a householder, who restrains his passions
ਜਪੁ ਤਪੁ ਸੰਜਮੁ ਭੀਖਿਆ ਕਰੈ ॥
jap tap sanjam bheekhi-aa karai.
and begs for meditation, austerity and self-discipline.
ਪੁੰਨ ਦਾਨ ਕਾ ਕਰੇ ਸਰੀਰੁ ॥
punn daan kaa karay sareer.
He gives donations to charity with his body;
ਸੋ ਗਿਰਹੀ ਗੰਗਾ ਕਾ ਨੀਰੁ ॥
so girhee gangaa kaa neer.
such a householder is as pure as the water of the Ganges.
ਬੋਲੈ ਈਸਰੁ ਸਤਿ ਸਰੂਪੁ ॥
bolai eesar sat saroop.
Says Eeshar, the Lord is the embodiment of Truth.
ਪਰਮ ਤੰਤ ਮਹਿ ਰੇਖ ਨ ਰੂਪੁ ॥੨॥
param tant meh raykh na roop. ||2||
The supreme essence of reality has no shape or form. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

A householder is one who holds back what pulls at them, and asks for meditation, simple living and self-discipline as the gifts they beg for.

They make their own body a gift, giving and helping others. A householder like that is as pure as the water of the Ganges.

Eeshar says: the One is Truth itself. The highest reality has no outline and no form.

You do not have to leave ordinary life to live a pure one, you master it from inside.
The deeper layer

Purity is found inside ordinary family life. The grihasti, the householder who masters his passions and gives of himself, is as pure as Ganges water.

This is the first of five verses in which Guru Nanak puts his teaching into the mouths of the Naths' own masters, here Eeshar, a name for Shiva, whom the yogis honored as the first teacher. Many yogis prized leaving home; the verse honors the person who stays and serves. The search itself is respected; only the place where purity is found moves home. The refrain says the One is the embodiment of Truth, formless (nirankaar), and it returns at the close of each verse in this group.

A Question to Sit With

How can everyday life itself be a spiritual practice?

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