Sikhism·Raag Saarang·Shabad 168
Verse 49 of 110

Even a Hard Heart Can Soften

ਪਉੜੀ ॥
pa-orhee.
Pauree:
ਨਿੰਮੁ ਬਿਰਖੁ ਬਹੁ ਸੰਚੀਐ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਰਸੁ ਪਾਇਆ ॥
nimm birakh baho sanchee-ai amrit ras paa-i-aa.
You can water a bitter neem tree with ambrosial nectar.
ਬਿਸੀਅਰੁ ਮੰਤ੍ਰਿ ਵਿਸਾਹੀਐ ਬਹੁ ਦੂਧੁ ਪੀਆਇਆ ॥
bisee-ar mantar visaahee-ai baho dooDh pee-aa-i-aa.
You can feed a venomous snake lots of milk.
ਮਨਮੁਖੁ ਅਭਿੰਨੁ ਨ ਭਿਜਈ ਪਥਰੁ ਨਾਵਾਇਆ ॥
manmukh abhinn na bhij-ee pathar navaa-i-aa.
The self-willed manmukh is resistant; he cannot be softened. You might as well water a stone.
ਬਿਖੁ ਮਹਿ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ ਸਿੰਚੀਐ ਬਿਖੁ ਕਾ ਫਲੁ ਪਾਇਆ ॥
bikh meh amrit sinchee-ai bikh kaa fal paa-i-aa.
Irrigating a poisonous plant with ambrosial nectar, only poisonous fruit is obtained.
ਨਾਨਕ ਸੰਗਤਿ ਮੇਲਿ ਹਰਿ ਸਭ ਬਿਖੁ ਲਹਿ ਜਾਇਆ ॥੧੬॥
naanak sangat mayl har sabh bikh leh jaa-i-aa. ||16||
O Lord, please unite Nanak with the Sangat, the Holy Congregation, so that he may be rid of all poison. ||16||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Sometimes a heart can feel so closed that no amount of kindness poured in seems to reach it — like watering a stone and waiting for it to grow soft. Anyone can get stuck in that hard place for a while.

But no heart is stone forever. Nanak asks the One: join me with the Sangat, and all the poison drains away. Among people who remember the One together, the hardness quietly melts. So the invitation is simple: come to the Sangat, and let yourself be softened.

No heart is stone forever — the Sangat can soften what felt impossibly hard.
The deeper layer

A closed heart can stay hard for a while, and the Sangat softens it.

Nimm birakh baho sanchee-ai amrit ras — you can water a bitter neem tree with nectar, or feed a snake plenty of milk, and they stay as they are. Manmukh abhinn na bhij-ee — a self-willed heart can be like that too, a stone that stays dry however long it is washed. That is a place anyone can get stuck in, and anyone can leave.

Naanak sangat mayl har sabh bikh leh jaa-i-aa — join me with the Sangat, and all the poison is gone. Think of a cold stone set in the sun among warm stones. Slowly, it warms up too.

A Question to Sit With

When you feel closed off or stubborn, how could time in the Sangat help you soften?

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