Sikhism·Raag Soohee·Shabad 109
Verse 4 of 4

The Friend From Your Earliest Childhood

ਆਇਆ ਲਗਨੁ ਗਣਾਇ ਹਿਰਦੈ ਧਨ ਓਮਾਹੀਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥
aa-i-aa lagan ganaa-ay hirdai Dhan omaahee-aa bal raam jee-o.
Calculating the most auspicious moment, the Lord comes into the bride's home; her heart is filled with ecstasy.
ਪੰਡਿਤ ਪਾਧੇ ਆਣਿ ਪਤੀ ਬਹਿ ਵਾਚਾਈਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥
pandit paaDhay aan patee bahi vaachaa-ee-aa bal raam jee-o.
The Pandits and astrologers have come, to sit and consult the almanacs.
ਪਤੀ ਵਾਚਾਈ ਮਨਿ ਵਜੀ ਵਧਾਈ ਜਬ ਸਾਜਨ ਸੁਣੇ ਘਰਿ ਆਏ ॥
patee vaachaa-ee man vajee vaDhaa-ee jab saajan sunay ghar aa-ay.
They have consulted the almanacs, and the bride's mind vibrates with bliss, when she hears that her Friend is coming into the home of her heart.
ਗੁਣੀ ਗਿਆਨੀ ਬਹਿ ਮਤਾ ਪਕਾਇਆ ਫੇਰੇ ਤਤੁ ਦਿਵਾਏ ॥
gunee gi-aanee bahi mataa pakaa-i-aa fayray tat divaa-ay.
The virtuous and wise men sat down and decided to perform the marriage immediately.
ਵਰੁ ਪਾਇਆ ਪੁਰਖੁ ਅਗੰਮੁ ਅਗੋਚਰੁ ਸਦ ਨਵਤਨੁ ਬਾਲ ਸਖਾਈ ॥
var paa-i-aa purakh agamm agochar sad navtan baal sakhaa-ee.
She has found her Husband, the Inaccessible, Unfathomable Primal Lord, who is forever young; He is her Best Friend from her earliest childhood.
ਨਾਨਕ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਕਰਿ ਕੈ ਮੇਲੇ ਵਿਛੁੜਿ ਕਦੇ ਨ ਜਾਈ ॥੪॥੧॥
naanak kirpaa kar kai maylay vichhurh kaday na jaa-ee. ||4||1||
O Nanak, he has mercifully united the bride with Himself. She shall never be separated again. ||4||1||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

The right moment has come, and my heart brims over. The One I longed for is arriving in the home of my heart.

The learned ones have come to sit and read the calendar of stars.

When I hear that my Friend is coming, joy rings inside me like good news. Everything wise in me agrees: let this meeting be now.

The One I find is beyond all reach and all guessing, and forever new. The One is my truest friend from my very first days.

In kindness the One draws me close, and we are never apart again.

The One you long for is your oldest friend, and once met, is never lost.
The deeper layer

The One is not a stranger. The One is our oldest friend.

This verse keeps the wedding picture. The family calls in pandits, learned priests, to read the almanac and pick a lucky hour. An almanac is a calendar of stars and dates. Wise people sit together and agree: let the wedding happen now. Here that picture points inward. The right moment is really the heart being ready, with every part of us agreeing.

Then the joy: sad navtan baal sakhaa-ee — forever new, a friend from earliest childhood. Navtan means fresh and new. Baal sakhaa-ee means childhood friend. Think of a kindergarten friend you see again years later. Right away it feels like no time has passed. The One is that friend, there before we can remember. The verse ends: vichhurh kaday na jaa-ee — we will never be apart again.

A Question to Sit With

Who has been your friend so long they feel like they were always there?

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