Sikhism·Raag Sorath·Shabad 16
Verse 3 of 4

Being Too Sure of Yourself and Running Others Down Wastes a Life

ਆਪਸ ਕਉ ਬਹੁ ਭਲਾ ਕਰਿ ਜਾਣਹਿ ਮਨਮੁਖਿ ਮਤਿ ਨ ਕਾਈ ॥
aapas ka-o baho bhalaa kar jaaneh manmukh mat na kaa-ee.
The self-willed manmukhs see themselves as being very virtuous; they have absolutely no understanding at all.
ਸਾਧੂ ਜਨ ਕੀ ਨਿੰਦਾ ਵਿਆਪੇ ਜਾਸਨਿ ਜਨਮੁ ਗਵਾਈ ॥
saaDhoo jan kee nindaa vi-aapay jaasan janam gavaa-ee.
They indulge in slander of the humble spiritual people; they waste their lives away, and then they have to depart.
ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮੁ ਕਦੇ ਚੇਤਹਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਅੰਤਿ ਗਏ ਪਛੁਤਾਈ ॥੩॥
raam naam kaday cheeteh naahee ant ga-ay pachhutaa-ee. ||3||
They never think of the Lord's Name, and in the end, they depart, regretting and repenting. ||3||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Some people are sure they're wonderful all on their own, and never pause to really understand.

Caught up in running down good and honest people, they let a whole life go to waste.

They never think of the Name — and in the end they leave wishing they had.

Being too sure of your own goodness, and running others down, quietly wastes a life.
The deeper layer

The middle pauri is about the trap of self-importance plus nindaa (running others down). Aapas ka-o baho bhalaa kar jaaneh — "they think themselves very good" — the blind spot of pride. Saadhoo jan kee nindaa — slandering good people — is the specific harm, and it "wastes a life." The literal's condemnation is softened per the voice rules; the manmukh here is gently observed, not damned, and the regret (pachhutaa-ee) is presented as the natural sadness of a life spent on the wrong things, a teacher rather than a punishment. The quiet caution: be careful of running others down, and of being too sure of your own goodness.

A Question to Sit With

When have you been quick to judge someone — and what did you miss by doing it?

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