Sikhism·Raag Tilang·Shabad 1
Verse 3 of 5

Everyone Crosses Their Last Door Alone

ਜਨ ਪਿਸਰ ਪਦਰ ਬਿਰਾਦਰਾਂ ਕਸ ਨੇਸ ਦਸਤੰਗੀਰ ॥
jan pisar padar biraadaraaN kas nays dastaNgeer.
Spouse, children, parents and siblings - none of them will be there to hold your hand.
ਆਖਿਰ ਬਿਅਫਤਮ ਕਸ ਨ ਦਾਰਦ ਚੂੰ ਸਵਦ ਤਕਬੀਰ ॥੨॥
aakhir bi-aftam kas na daarad chooN savad takbeer. ||2||
And when at last I fall, and the time of my last prayer has come, there shall be no one to rescue me. ||2||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Wife or husband, children, parents, brothers and sisters — not one of them can hold your hand at the end.

And when I finally fall, and the moment for my last prayer comes, there is no one else who can rescue me.

Everyone you love must cross their own last door alone — which is exactly why the heart reaches for the One who can be there.
The deeper layer

This one says: at the very end, the One is the hand we can hold.

Nanak names the people we love most. Husband or wife, children, parents, brothers and sisters. None of them can hold our hand at that last door. Aakhir bi-aftam — when at last I fall — no one else can rescue me.

That can sound sad. But it is not saying love doesn't matter. Love matters a great deal. It is showing where our deepest help comes from. Think of a relay race. Your team cheers you all the way. But the last steps over the line, you take yourself. Nanak says the One takes them with you.

Each of us crosses that last door, and the One goes along. Nanak says this not to scare us. He says it so we turn our hearts toward that Friend now, while there is time.

A Question to Sit With

Who or what do you most want 'with you' for the moments no one else can share?

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