Sikhism·Raag Tilang·Shabad 4
Verse 4 of 4

The Foolish Grow Wise by Giving Up the Self in the Way

ਆਪੁ ਗਵਾਈਐ ਤਾ ਸਹੁ ਪਾਈਐ ਅਉਰੁ ਕੈਸੀ ਚਤੁਰਾਈ ॥
aap gavaa-ee-ai taa saho paa-ee-ai a-or kaisee chaturaa-ee.
Give up your selfhood, and so obtain your Husband Lord; what other clever tricks are of any use?
ਸਹੁ ਨਦਰਿ ਕਰਿ ਦੇਖੈ ਸੋ ਦਿਨੁ ਲੇਖੈ ਕਾਮਣਿ ਨਉ ਨਿਧਿ ਪਾਈ ॥
saho nadar kar daykhai so din laykhai kaaman na-o niDh paa-ee.
When the Husband Lord looks upon the soul-bride with His Gracious Glance, that day is historic - the bride obtains the nine treasures.
ਆਪਣੇ ਕੰਤ ਪਿਆਰੀ ਸਾ ਸੋਹਾਗਣਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਸਾ ਸਭਰਾਈ ॥
aapnay kant pi-aaree saa sohagan naanak saa sabhraa-ee.
She who is loved by her Husband Lord, is the true soul-bride; O Nanak, she is the queen of all.
ਐਸੈ ਰੰਗਿ ਰਾਤੀ ਸਹਜ ਕੀ ਮਾਤੀ ਅਹਿਨਿਸਿ ਭਾਇ ਸਮਾਣੀ ॥
aisai rang raatee sahj kee maatee ahinis bhaa-ay samaanee.
Thus she is imbued with His Love, intoxicated with delight; day and night, she is absorbed in His Love.
ਸੁੰਦਰਿ ਸਾਇ ਸਰੂਪ ਬਿਚਖਣਿ ਕਹੀਐ ਸਾ ਸਿਆਣੀ ॥੪॥੨॥੪॥
sundar saa-ay saroop bichkhan kahee-ai saa si-aanee. ||4||2||4||
She is beautiful, glorious and brilliant; she is known as truly wise. ||4||2||4||

Translation by Dr. Sant Singh Khalsa

In plain words

Give up your selfhood, and so find your Beloved — what other clever trick could work?

When the Beloved looks on the bride with His grace, that day is a landmark: she gains every treasure. The bride her Beloved loves is the true bride, Nanak says — the queen of all. She is soaked in His love, glad and carefree, absorbed in it day and night. She is beautiful, radiant, and truly wise.

The foolish become truly wise not by getting cleverer but by giving up the very selfhood that stood in the way.
The deeper layer

The close states it flatly: "Give up your selfhood, and so obtain your Husband Lord; what other clever tricks are of any use?" The whole path is the surrender of the separate, self-important self. And the reward is total: the day grace glances on her is "historic," and she becomes "the queen of all" — beautiful, radiant, wise, carefree, absorbed in love. Note the transformation: the "foolish bride" of the opening becomes "truly wise" — not by getting cleverer, but by giving up the cleverness that stood in the way.

A Question to Sit With

What might open up if you set down the 'clever, self-managing you' for a while?

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